woodsmen
Most men don't believe women go on feelings in a relationship. The ones that don't are out for money or what ever. The whole "You can't convince a woman to be attracted to you" is hard to get in some mens heads. Many men fall back in to buying gifts, complements, everything that goes against real attraction. Even I had trouble believing it. Could not understand how a woman can say one thing but mean another. Many men miss out because they think they need to be tall, rich and good looking to attract a woman. They take what comes a long and are miserable. The same can be said of women with abusive men. They think and feel they can't do or deserve better and they stick to what they know and suffer