Explosive Findings!
If we use his study's findings to understand how we humans are designed to behave in the sexual domain, says Randy Thomhill, Ph.D., then we are better equipped to deal with problems that arise in relationships. He points to the following results as among those we should take to heart:
o A woman's capacity for orgasm depends not on her partner's sexual skill but on her subconscious evaluation of his genetic merits.
o Women's orgasm has little to do with love. Or experience.
o Good men are indeed hard to find.
o The men with the best genes make the worst mates.
o Women are no more built for monogamy than men are. They are designed to keep their options open.
o Women fake orgasm to divert a partner's attention from their infidelities.
Are women are designed by nature to use men for their own purposes and then
discard them?
They are just as fucked up as we are. But too prideful to admit to it.
Even when the evidence is right there. I guess there is a "feminine
pretense" too.
Science is telling us that women are just as hard wired to cheat as men do
if not more so. But they indicate that women do this unconsciously.
I have had orgasms ever since I was 13.My earlier orgasms were self
induced.My mother always told me that masterbation was ok and it detered me
from having sexual intercourse until I was nearly 20.As I say,in case of
emergency fuck thyself! Even before I had intercourse I was able to have an
orgasm with my pants on simply by straddling my patner and grinding away.I
had my first intercourse induced orgasm my 2nd time.I am glad I am very
familiar with my body and am lucky enough to be so orgasmic.I would have to
disaree with "Women fake orgasm to divert a partner's attention from their
infidelities."because anytime I have "faked" it was with men was not due to
infidelity,it was because I was bored and wanted to go home.Being the nice
person I am I did not want to hurt thier fragile male ego.I know I should
have taught them what
I liked but I knew they were only in my life for the night and it all would
have been a waste of time.The men with whom I have a relationship are the
ones who get a class in Ç£L£$tÏå anatomy 101...The class has had a 100%
success rate:)
>>Being the nice person I am I did not want to hurt their fragile
male ego.<<
I know my previous comment is more than likely T.M.I...lol...
OUCH,but true men are very sensitive about thier sexual prowess.
>>I would have to disaree with "Women fake orgasm to divert a
partner's attention from their infidelities.<<
>>OUCH, but true men are very sensitive about thier sexual
prowess.<<
There have been many so called proven scientific theories that have been
proven wrong in the past.
Yes,indeed they were boring,but shhh do not tell them;)As far as they know
it was good for me.I am quite the performer in the faking dept.*takes a
bow*
Ç£L£$tÏå-ÎñçøgÑîTø made this comment, "There have been many so called
proven scientific theories that have been proven wrong in the past."
Celestia, women also are very sensitive about their sexual prowess as well,
aren't they? The female ego is also fragile! Hence all the needing to
validate and verify their sexuality, needing to "feel sexy", "feel wanted",
"be a goddess" etc.
If I think I am going to be having sex with them more than once I will
teach them.
But what's the point of having sex if you aren't satisfied? even if it is
just a one time thing? What do you get out of it?
Good question!At the time I did not care wether or not I was satisfied,I
was all about the adventure back then.The euphoria of the "one night stand"
was an addictive drug for me.At the time I was a little less disciminating
in my choice of sexual partners.I am sure if I were out on the market again
I would be much more discriminating.
Well well well, it seems we got a fuck veteran up in here. Well,
interesting thread and interesting comments made by Celest.
Hmmm...Fuck Veteran...I never thought of it that way.Yes indeed I have
accumulated much experience in my almost 29 years.I am not ashamed of
myself,I did what I did.At least I have no more curiosity left and am more
able to be faithful to the man I have been with for 8 months now.I know
what temperature the water is and have no desire to test it.I am
satisfied;)with what I have.My man knows all about my past and does not
care and that is all that matters to me.
No female could fake it with me I don't see how it could be. I mean the
things that happen when woman have an orgasm is so much more then movie
star stuff. She gets wet, she shakes, she gets wet. She gets sweaty, she
gets wet. The smell, come on guys.
"Instead sitting her faking orgasms and wasting this man's baby-paste, just
say, "Ok. Wait. Stop. This is not working.""
James I am sorry but I do not sweat when having a white light orgasm.I have
even gone so far as to do a few vibrating kegal clenches at the end of my
performance.Personally I have until recently had a hard time finding
intamacy in sex do for me it was more anout having another adventure.To me
sex was sex and love was love there was no mixing the two.The men I had the
one nighters with knew the score.I could see the man a week later and I was
not sad or embarrassed,I would simply say "hi".I was not one to get hung up
on a man simply because we had sex.I agree with Invisiblegirl men do not
take too kindly to a woman who leaves before he cums.I tried once and the
man ended somewhat agressive.
Yes don't try to leave. And you forgot one part about faking........You
can't get wet if you fake it. When woman cumm they get very wet. When you
fake it, your dry, and very warm.....mmm
I ment to say when they cumm they are very wet and warm
Ç£L£$tÏå-ÎñçøgÑîTø if you not sweating durring sex, then maybe you havn't
had a real whopper of a orgasm. The where you can't even breath
A guy 'fuck veteran' can tell if a woman is faking it IF he is paying
attention. BUT, why would a guy care? If she's dumb enough to sit there and
not tell a guy what to hit and what works for, then that's her problem.
I'm gonna get that phrase "Fuck Veteran" copyrighted. lol It's a start of
a nu movement!
Damnit once again if people would stop fucking playing games then nobody
would have anything to get angry over. If the guy is not fucking you to
your liking just tell him how you like it instead of faking it. You don't
have to be a rude bitch about it, just tell him what makes your juices run.
It's that fucking simple. YES we get pissed off when you lie. Because
then you blame us even further for the fact you didn't have an orgasm, even
if you say "it's okay". It is NOT okay, you will talk about us w/ your
girls about our weak ass performance.
"tell him what makes your juices run." Totally - he'll love you for it!!!
It just never made sense to me how women expect a man to be an expert at
pleasing them when they don't even tell us what they like.
>>If the guy is not fucking you to your liking just tell him how you
like it instead of faking it.<<
YES! MEN DON'T HAVE INTUITION!!!!
>>I guess the "making love" part has nothing to do w/ THEIR feelings,
but they probably figure they can "make" us love them??? My advice is don't
attach feelings to something if they are not genuine. Otherwise people
almost always get confused and hurt.<< under the new rules of our new
'Hookup Culture' the rules have changed. Sex is separate from love and the
pill and feminism have made a great difference.
Sometimes I just women would outright tell the damn truth. Whether or not
there are strings attatched. Assmuptions are dangerous.
I have altered my point of view since my early days as Celestia Incognito
and my regret for my comment was posted earlier this month under the title
"Regret and Humility".You can read it by clicking on my link.
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"It just never made sense to me how women expect a man to be an expert at
pleasing them when they don't even tell us what they like."
The women I have had the best sexual experiences in my life are women that
are with ease with their sexuality, and are good at masturbating them self.
When you know how you can have an orgasm by yourself, you know how to have
one with somebody else too. I love women that can tell me "how they like
it", and I am eager to please :-).
Straightforward is best. When you have to guess you chance being wrong, and
since they get angry when you're wrong they might as well just tell you
what they want in the first place.