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posted Sun, 12/27/09

Study: Women More Attracted to Risky Men (bad boy/ jerks) When They're Most Likely to Conceive

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Women are most attracted to sex with masculine, high-risk men during ovulation, when they are most likely to get pregnant, a Kinsey Institute study finds.

Heather Rupp, PhD, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, studied 12 single heterosexual women aged 23 to 28. While hooked up to an fMRI machine that detects activity in different parts of the brain, the women looked at 256 photos of male faces.

Using a computer morphing program, researchers altered the photos to make the male faces look more or less masculine. The women were also given sexual risk information on the men that included their number of sexual partners and their typical condom-use patterns.

After viewing the faces and the information, the women were asked to rate how likely they were to have sex with the man in each photo.

But in this study, Rupp and colleagues weren't as much interested in who the women said they'd have sex with as in what happened inside their heads.

Around the time of ovulation, when the women were most likely to conceive after unprotected sex, the women's brains showed more activity in areas linked to reward and risk taking. Stimuli that arouse this area of the brain include drugs, alcohol, and gambling.

During ovulation, the women also had weaker brain responses in brain areas linked to inhibition and risk evaluation. And while women showed more activity in brain areas linked to decision-making and reward when looking at photos of high-risk men than when looking at photos of low-risk men, this activity was weaker during ovulation than it was later in the menstrual cycle.

At this week's annual meeting of the Society for Neuroscience, Rupp suggested that during ovulation, women will be more likely to engage in risky sex and be more vulnerable to drug and alcohol abuse than at other times.

"At ovulation, when is likely, women may prioritize fertilization and find masculine men more rewarding and less risky," Rupp suggested in her meeting presentation. "Towards the end of the menstrual cycle, when hormones are preparing for potential pregnancy, the priority may shift from mating to finding a low-risk, stable partner who can provide more parental investment and resources."

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1. Dave left...
Sun, 11/18/07 9:09 pm

Evolutionary psychologist claim that over 80% of women want to have sex with only 8% of men


2. Ali left...
Mon, 11/19/07 6:35 pm

Well gee Dave, I wonder why there are so many single mothers? *smh*

Well no surprise why you see several women fighting over the same fool who won't take care of any of his children and won't be faithful to anybody he's with. These ladies make their beds with the wrong dudes and then cry the blues when it's time to lie in it.


3. will left...
Sat, 03/22/08 8:58 am

This another reason men should avoid women. Women don't seem hard wired to desire ordenary men. Only risky men.


4. Dave left...
Sat, 03/22/08 9:20 am

We need to be fair here. Men are hardwired to seek as many sexual partners they can get. Women are hardwired to desire sex only with risky men. Men and women are in general totally incompatible and not well suited for long term loving relatioships.


5. Ali left...
Sun, 03/23/08 5:37 am

Yeah dave but it could be argued that the people, male or female, who behave irresponsibly like this really create their own messes.

I wasn't trying to say that men in general were any better or worse, in either gender you have your folks who lack self control and common sense.

But this thread is not about comparing men vs women. The topic is this phenomenon of hi-risk sexual partners chosen around ovulation or whatever.

My point is, for the women who do this, they can't exactly claim victim status when it goes south on them. When they get knocked up by somebody who isn't their boyfriend or husband, or if they catch an STD, they often will blame the guy who impregnated them or infected them, conveniently forgetting the fact that they purposely chose to have casual sex with him without protection.

Now if this problem cannot be discussed without a knee-jerk reaction ping-ponging the focus onto men, then I think it's kinda clear why there's rarely any resolution when we have these kinds of discussions.

If women are prone to choose high risk partners, and there is evidence of some kind of biological tendency to do this, then don't they have to be more aware of self and all the more responsible for their actions? One has to keep their urges in check or they will make some bad decisions, for the same reason it's not too wise for men to go around making choices with their family jewels. And yes men screw up too, but my thing is that when women screw up they don't seem to take responsibility too well, it's always made out to be some man's fault. To her, it's her husband's fault she cheated, and her lover's fault she got pregnant, etc. and her dad's fault for not being a good father figure...most of the time the true facts will be hidden from everybody while she sweeps what she can under the rug so she continues to smell like roses. Well what about her rather pivotal role in the process?


6. Ali left...
Sun, 03/23/08 5:40 am

I also disagree with the notion that it's ok to blame "hardwiring" for why people do things they shouldn't. We are human beings, not animals. Maybe you want to let them off the hook and say it's their DNA's fault but I call shennanigans.

I look at it as a failure to control oneself. They always had a choice, even if they were horny and ovulating, to not make a stupid decision that undermined their future or their relationship.

So don't make excuses for them, they will make enough for themselves.


7. Dave left...
Sun, 03/23/08 7:57 am

It's important to use our impulse control to counter our hard wiring.


8. Ali left...
Sun, 07/20/08 1:52 pm

Self control's a very important attribute to have. Can you really trust someone who is impulsive and acts on fleeting whims? They'll just do what they felt like doing at the time and make excuses for it or justify it after the fact assuming you even find out.