What else men want (252)

Unpredictibility is exciting..

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"This is not game playing because you're not PRETENDING to be busy to mess with his mind. You're actually enjoying your day. After all, there's no guarantee that he WILL call so why should you waste a glorious Saturday waiting around?" This is why we don't call. If we do call and your not there it's a toss up to leave a message. Not much of a chance you will call us back. We don't give up we just kind of move on and see what happens. It would be nice if woman actually did stay home when they say they will but this rarely happens. The first few interactions with a woman much be perfect otherwise she will loose interest really fast. Don't fool yourself. it's a game women love to play.

They are using female logic and trying to apply it to male actions.

He said he was going to do something, and he didn't. So he didn't really want to call. I think this has less to do with him needing things to be unpredictable (if the OP premise was true he wouldn't say a specific day he'd say he'd call in a few days or something more vague), and more to do with the guy either having other plans come up or being insincere. Usually people who want to do something, follow thru with it, and this was as simple as a phone call which doesn't take much effort. So he dropped the ball and IMO it wasn't her fault. What the OP is trying to do is project how women do when men sit around and wait for their call, but it doesn't necessarally work like that with men. If he said he was gonna call, and he didn't call then he wasn't serious about calling, or it wasn't really a big deal. It has nothing to do with whether she was waiting by the phone or whether she was out having fun or something. If he wanted to talk to her he would have called and left a message worse case scenario.

I think whatever guys want gals should be little becareful... you should see and spend little time with any guy to see what he really is..