What do men want? 186

"That's why when a woman pursues them, (more often than not) they are either instantly turned off, or are momentarily flattered and intrigued but then lose interest very quickly, no matter how attractive she may be."

For me it was because the sexually aggressive woman had other intentions then a relationship with me. In a sense I was being tricked for some obscure reason like her trying to cope with a past relationship. I feel that most men have this experiance with a woman who has pursued him. We don't love a challenge or are hunters by nature. Men are always looking for angles to make things easier. We want to simplify things to better our chances and understanding. Another thing is that after awhile of the woman pursuing us we soon realize that nothing will come of it and loose interest. Overly aggressive woman are notorious for pulling back the attention last minuet. Women wont admit that, so it isn't the man loosing interest, it's the women not following through.

I think it is great when a woman step up to initiate conversation and getting to know her better. It is a turn off if I learn that she does this on a regular basis like a player.

men are not competitive ,men are cooperative by nature.women are competitive by nature,femenized men raised by women are competitive by nature. any investigation into our evolutionary ancesteral past will prove these statments.

"men are cooperative by nature.women are competitive by nature" Wow! This is so true. It just hit me after reading it. Women will kill each other over a pair of shoes or something. Even fighting over a parking spot is common. It could be that women do not have that fear of retaliation like men have. Women are allowed to get angry and yell.

Great blog you have here. Men really want a women who will appreciate everything that they do and admire them. The difference between women and men is that men CRAVE admiration. I've found this to be true with every man that i've talked to.

feminized men crave admiration.masculine men are self suficient.

Are you kidding me!!!! In todays day and age it is hunt or be hunted. Don't hold it against a women if her hunting instinct recognizes you as prey rather than preditor.

Don't we all love what we can't have? I have long blond hair and blue eyes. I have always longed for those sexy dark curls and deep brown eyes.

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You can't get what you want, because what you CAN get you don't want. Think about it. If a man has a woman pursuing him and he knows he can have her easily, he will not return the favor. However, if the woman shows disinterest he will knock himself out trying to win her affections. The same holds true with women. Men who act nice and flatter a woman will most often get rejected because the woman knows that she can have him. But if the man acts rudely, she will knock herself out trying to win him over as well.

Also, you have to realize that there are always more fish in the sea. Most often the man or woman is pursuing someone else at the time and won't bother. Why have her when you can have HER.