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posted Thursday, 24 July 2008
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Is it really using a person if they each get something out of it? I believe that bad boys know they aren't good relationship material. They make every effort to keep women at a distance. With that being the case, is it wrong for a woman to "use" a bad boy for fun and excitement and a nice guy for a long lasting, committed relationship? Look at it this way. If I needed my taxes done, would I see a grocer or would I see an accountant? An accountant, right? I would be using the accountant because of what I get out of him/her. And is that wrong? No, because that's what they are there for.

As far as justifying my actions, I don't need to justify anything. It's really a simple matter of how the world works - how the game is played. Once the game is understood, then I can be a better player. If I want to be with a bad boy for fun and excitement, then that's between me and him now isn't it? And if I want to be with a nice guy for a committed relationship, then that's between me and him, too, isn't it? Just because the facts sound atrocious doesn't mean that they aren't true.

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1. Dave left...
Thursday, 24 July 2008 6:31 am

We are told that women cannot feel attraction for a nice guy but only for the bad boy. When she commits to a long term relationship with a nice guy she still craves sex with the bad boy and will want to cheat with him. Is this fair to the nice guy? That's not a good game. The nice guy is only a walking wallet. Is this atrocious?


2. Dave left...
Thursday, 24 July 2008 9:42 am

will said, "A girl told me that she wanted a "Nice guy" but was sexually attracted to "Bad boys". She states that when girls are young they go with what they FEEL more then what they NEED. More importantly they go with the sexual feelings almost always when they are young. When they get older then they go for the "Nice guy" because they know they can settle down with them cause they're more responsible and suited for marriage."


3. D left...
Thursday, 24 July 2008 2:14 pm

Ok Dave, try being 'Bad' in a 'Nice' way! Works every time!


4. The Joker left...
Thursday, 24 July 2008 3:13 pm

Guys I think you should ask yourself if you want a woman who would use a guy for what he is good for and then leave him for another. Then ponder the wisdom (or lack thereof) of acting in such a way to attract a woman like that....

How about this: if she's not genuinely attracted to you don't let her in the door in the first place because something is fishy. She could be approaching you for security or some other reason but it will be a sham. You've heard of those marriages where the guy's wife doesn't want to have sex with him but she's off having affairs and whatnot. Well that was probably a woman who never was attracted to her husband in the first place. They never should have gotten married, but you can't leave it up to the person who has fraudulent intentions to make the right call, you have to screen out people like that.


5. RealTalk left...
Friday, 25 July 2008 4:06 pm :: http://realtalk-time.blogspot.com

Good point Joker. Did you guys ever think about that 9 times out of 10 if a woman cheats it's usually because the man is not giving her something she needs. Maybe he's lacking in something and that's why she's cheating. When it comes to husbands and wives there's a lot that comes into play with them because they are sharing a life (bills, kids, drama) when it's just dating i think you're right, it's the excitement that comes along with the bad boys and or the females own insecurities that makes her stick with him. And yes it takes us women maturing and wanting something out of life to see that it's the nice guys we really need.