We label a man a jerk because he manipulates women’s feelings, actions, and attitudes after his façade has sucked them in. There is something about a jerk that can be very attractive. These men can act as charming and nice as can be. They know they look good. They have their routines down pat. These professional jerks are like fishermen. They regularly go on missions to get things from women by using their bait to get them hooked. Then they keep women dangling from their lines as they pick them clean. They use women because women want to fall for their facades.
Let’s face it. Being with a man a woman is really attracted to is the best in her mind. And when he says things they’ve really been wanting to hear, dying to hear, and thinking they may never hear, women become putty in their hands, without waiting to see if what they’re hearing is for real. These men are manipulators, used to getting their way. And when they stop getting their way they move on. They don’t feel any guilt for hurting her. They feel if she was stupid enough to fall for him then that’s just too bad for her. Many of these men want as many sex partners as they can get and they can get it.
And, just think she probably dumped a nice guy, who wanted to treat her well, to chase after this jerk.
The problem with nice guys is that boring sex issue again.
Why do you blame the man for why sex with you is boring? Don't you know how
to do anything other than lay on your back?