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What Women say 152

posted Thu, 08/21/08

woodsmen

The "Game" is not used by jerks and bad boys to get women. Those men have no idea why they get women. Women have no idea why they like them. Even players don't use the game. They use manipulation. Their goal is to abuse women. They use drugs and drunk women for their flings.

The "Game" was created by frustrated men who lost every time. Failed with good girls, bad girls and everything in between. There are natural laws of attraction in this world. Yes most women want:

 "Height, wealth, intelligence, STATUS and badness in a man" But that's just their words.

They want the "feeling" they get from those words. You need to find out why a woman likes a tall man. Most will say "I feel safe and secure with a tall man" If you can fill that "need" for the woman to "feel" safe and secure around you the she will be attracted. As for intelligence, well that means she wants to "feel" that her man can think about things. Challenge her every once in a while to do better. Badassness? Again, she wants to "feel" you can take care of things when they get tough. You don't have to be a fighter, just a guy who can keep his cool in a bad time and be her rock so she can have her "emotion" and be "secure" in the fact you will take care of the problem.

Women want to have a "FEELING" from a man.

Ask her deep questions and "LISTEN". She will get her feelings and realize you are great and always were great. Learning how women think actually makes you better. Don't try and compare it with manipulation because it's not. You need to do more then read a few web pages over the weekend. You need to delve into it and learn the psychology of it. Would you say a therapist "manipulating" his or her patient? No, because they know how the mind works and can use the knowledge to help people. Same goes for a PUA. The Knowledge is used to make a women realize her past mistakes and see you for the real you that was always there. A man unwilling to learn about attraction is a man unwilling to evolve. He will die out like the Neanderthals

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1. Xena left...
Fri, 08/22/08 9:29 am

Very good point! This should be read and understood.


2. D J left...
Fri, 08/22/08 11:54 am

Wow, some half-way decent advice.

"You need to do more then read a few web pages over the weekend."

To experience life you need to do more than read about it on the internet all the time. A lot of time life does not work out the way you are told it is supposed to. Opinions and even facts sometimes do not apply to every situation. In recent weeks I've found that sometimes not turning on my computer is the most liberating thing I can do. And my life has improved greatly because of it.

" "Height, wealth, intelligence, STATUS and badness in a man" But that's just their words. "

Aside from intelligence, most decent women look for much more important things than listed here. Otherwise you'd never see a short man married man, or an unemployed guy with a girlfriend. Don't believe the hype.


3. rod left...
Fri, 08/22/08 2:10 pm

translation into english:women want a strong slave


4. D J left...
Fri, 08/22/08 2:15 pm

"translation into english:women want a strong slave"

Looks like you lost the true meaning of the post in the "translation".


5. woodsmen left...
Sun, 08/24/08 9:33 am

"Very good point! This should be read and understood."

That's the problem. Most men don't believe women go on feelings in a relationship. The one that don't are out for money or what ever. The whole "You can't convince a woman to be attracted to you" is hard to get in some mens heads. Many men fall back in to buying gifts, complements, everything that goes against real attraction. Even I had trouble believing it. Could not understand how a woman can say one thing but mean another. Many men miss out because they think they need to be tall, rich and good looking to attract a woman. They take what comes a long and are miserable. The same can be said of women with abusive men. They think and feel they can't do or deserve better and they stick to what they know and suffer.


6. Will D'Angelo left...
Sun, 08/24/08 7:33 pm

This is one of the best things I read on this site in a long time. I think alot of guys need to read and understand this. It's amazing to me how most guys fail to realize that the most important thing about females and attraction is the feelings that she has about a guy. It's not about money, power, height or any of the dumb crap. It's about how she feels being with the guy. I been with women who preferences I hadn't met but gave me a chance cause of the way they felt about me. I think once some guys understand this, they might stop this whole "There are no good females" crap. Thank you Woodsmen.


7. D J left...
Sun, 08/24/08 10:10 pm

Hello Will, nice to see you post again. Yes, lately the blog has had some fair-minded, optimistic, helpful posts. It's a nice change of pace, isn't it? Hopefully it will last for a bit.

And to be fair, men also like being with a woman who makes them feel good about themselves. Just like women, men like to be with someone who makes him feel appreciated,desirable,respected, and loved. And when a man finds a woman who genuinely makes him feel all these things, and whom he genuinely wants to make feel this way, he tends to stick with her.


8. Arlene left...
Mon, 09/01/08 10:00 pm

men want us to listen too, they get annoyed when we don't listen

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