Only few women like you think that way , most of them want Mr.Bad boy. I am
a nice man, but I don't need a woman to accept me the way I am. That is the
problem with most nice men they want to be liked.
Guys who want to be liked are at a great disadvantage in life.
Correct Dave. Decide who and how YOU want to be. Once you are comfortable
with yourself you will be comfortable with the world around you. God, I'm
beginning to sound like Dave..!
Ha! I have the same problem with the opposite sex. Heaps of guys are
ready to spend time with me if they think I'm going to put out, but once
they find I'm not, they quickly lose interest. I'm with Giselle on this
one ... where have all the "soft" guys who know how to respect a woman
gone?
"Not all women want an a-hole of a boyfriend." but don't most want an
a-hole?
Re: Kim, If you don't put out then why are you spending any time with a
man? Can't you get your needs met by a female friend and not lead a man on
with the promise of a relationship or sex? Sounds like you enjoy the
attention men give you when they think you will put out, but then you pull
the rug out when he asks. What would you think of a man if he did that to a
woman?
I came across this site through a Google search on defensiveness in
relationships and it was like an answer to prayer! The insights here are so
eye opening! Thanks!
i recently broke up witha 'soft' guy, we were together two and half years
and he's a great person but in my opinion women want a guy who can take
control, take care of themselves and you and most importantly ACT LIKE A
BLOODY MAN!
So you break up with the "great person" and you shack up with the smooth
criminal....