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"soft" guys (97 reads)

posted Sat, 06/27/09

Giselle 

What's wrong with having a man who is sensitive to his feelings? Those "soft" guys you talk about, IN MY OPINION, are real men. Not all women want an a-hole of a boyfriend.

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1. carlosvasquez126 left...
Sat, 06/27/09 8:15 pm

Only few women like you think that way , most of them want Mr.Bad boy. I am a nice man, but I don't need a woman to accept me the way I am. That is the problem with most nice men they want to be liked.


2. Dave left...
Sat, 06/27/09 8:32 pm

Guys who want to be liked are at a great disadvantage in life.


3. D left...
Sun, 06/28/09 10:01 am

Correct Dave. Decide who and how YOU want to be. Once you are comfortable with yourself you will be comfortable with the world around you. God, I'm beginning to sound like Dave..!


4. Kim left...
Sun, 06/28/09 5:16 pm

Ha! I have the same problem with the opposite sex. Heaps of guys are ready to spend time with me if they think I'm going to put out, but once they find I'm not, they quickly lose interest. I'm with Giselle on this one ... where have all the "soft" guys who know how to respect a woman gone?


5. Dave left...
Mon, 06/29/09 8:02 am

"Not all women want an a-hole of a boyfriend." but don't most want an a-hole?


6. Woodsmen left...
Tue, 06/30/09 8:37 pm

Re: Kim, If you don't put out then why are you spending any time with a man? Can't you get your needs met by a female friend and not lead a man on with the promise of a relationship or sex? Sounds like you enjoy the attention men give you when they think you will put out, but then you pull the rug out when he asks. What would you think of a man if he did that to a woman?


7. reneelleo left...
Tue, 07/14/09 5:44 pm

I came across this site through a Google search on defensiveness in relationships and it was like an answer to prayer! The insights here are so eye opening! Thanks!


8. emma left...
Thu, 07/16/09 6:35 am

i recently broke up witha 'soft' guy, we were together two and half years and he's a great person but in my opinion women want a guy who can take control, take care of themselves and you and most importantly ACT LIKE A BLOODY MAN!


9. WTF left...
Fri, 07/17/09 4:35 am

So you break up with the "great person" and you shack up with the smooth criminal....

Yeah that's wise...