bubblicious
So many things contribute towards cheating, like boredom in the relationship, lack of trust etc and I believe most people are tempted at some time. You could be feeling low and someone pays you a compliment, or someone flirts with you on social networking sites like facebook. If things are wrong with your relationship and opportunities come up it then boils down to moral integrity. It's harder to stay faithful but why risk everything for a bit of short lived sexual gratification?
It's really sad when people cheat and no-one really understands why people who seem to have it all will risk everything for a bit of dangerous fun. It's so difficult to get the trust back again. Cheating once is bad enough, but to cheat that many times means something must have been wrong in the relationship and it's probably best that it's over with. The signs are fairly easy to spot http://www.spysupermarket.co.uk/spying-and-relationship-advice/top-10-signs-of-a-cheating-partner.html
It's a fascinating topic but it can also be so destructive. It's hard to
understand the motivation, I suppose there are some common themes. It's
interesting though to find out what people believe to be cheating. I have
talked to a lot people and some believe that chatting or sending messages
on facebook or other social networking sites without their partner knowing,
constitutes cheating. Others believe you actually have to meet up and have
some physical contact, ie kissing for it to cross the line. I'd be
interested to hear more views on this topic.
i think that what makes a cheater is someone that hugs or kisses another
person. Etc....I believe that if you have to do this to someone you might
as well end the relationship. why keep it going? Iall depends on the 2
people.