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Silent listening 33
posted Sunday, 11 May 2008
From an early age we've been taught the importance of problem solving. Yet, sometimes, we can help people more by not trying to find solutions. In fact, on occasion, silent listening and empathy can be a pricelss gift.
People who are grieving the loss of a loved one or a relationship, need time to mourn, not quick solutions. They need you to listen while they pour out thier hearts; they want a silent hug, not instant answers.
A friend is ranting and raving about their parner may just need to let off steam. An understanding smile and a hand on the shoulder may be the best support you can give.
Why not try a little silemce today? You may find it says more than a thousand words.
What are your thoughts?
silence is golden
