the joker
How about this: if she's not genuinely attracted to you don't let her in the door in the first place because something is fishy. She could be approaching you for security or some other reason but it will be a sham. You've heard of those marriages where the guy's wife doesn't want to have sex with him but she's off having affairs and whatnot. Well that was probably a woman who never was attracted to her husband in the first place. They never should have gotten married, but you can't leave it up to the person who has fraudulent intentions to make the right call, you have to screen out people like that.