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Do women see good guys as losers? (12,932 reads)

Sun, 11/01/09 9:48 A GMT-05
Nice guys are ugly! They haven't the air of sensuality about them that bad guys do, because they just haven't had lives. Nice guys think women are a 'special species' from another planet. Nice guys suffocate their girlfriends, expecting them to be th

Are nice guys just too boring? (448)

Wed, 10/21/09 6:58 A GMT-05
I overheard a pretty flight attendant saying, "You get tired of the jerks after a while but the nice guys are just so boring."

If I wanted nice in my life I'd screw someone like Mr. Rogers (2,334 reads)

Thu, 08/13/09 12:12 P GMT-05
Bad boys make good girls comeby Lindsey WasleyWhat?s the worse word you can use to describe someone? It?s ok to say that your girlfriend is hot although beautiful is better ? much better. It?s fine to describe your man as smart or even strong

What is a Jerk, Rat or Bad Boy and why do women crave him? (8,360 reads)

Fri, 07/31/09 4:53 P GMT-05
We label a man a jerk because he manipulates women?s feelings, actions, and attitudes after his façade has sucked them in. There is something about a jerk that can be very attractive. These men can act as charming and nice as can be. They know the

Women prefer tough guys with just a little sensitivity! (104 reads)

Mon, 06/15/09 10:52 P GMT-05
Women say they want sensitive men, but they don't want them to be too sensitive. Men need to be sensitive to a woman's feelings but tough and manly in other ways. Women seem to disparage weak men excessively.Very few men meet a woman's requirements

Why Women want a dangerous rebellious man (1,943 reads)

Sun, 06/14/09 6:49 A GMT-05
WHY DOES SHE RESENT ME WHEN I TREAT HER NICELY?Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen I am a tad troubled by what I've been reading in your column. You talk a lot about what to do to find and keep a girl, but you don't seem to address the issue of wheth

Human alpha, beta, and omega: the pecking order (3,179 reads)

Wed, 04/08/09 7:22 A GMT-05
The subject of social dynamics, male/female relations, and the alpha/beta/omega dynamic is something I have been studying actively for months, both in reading and in life experience. I decided to take this study up after having had many girlfriends b

Men must adopt some of the Bad Boy mentality 204

Wed, 12/24/08 1:27 P GMT-05
 Men pretty much are forced to adopt at least some of the Bad Boy mentality to be deemed "worthy" dating & sex-wise in the feminine mind. This is basically the reality that exists nowadays. Chivalry, manners, and even simple kindness c

An erotic edge of danger that's hard to resist 631

Sun, 12/21/08 7:09 A GMT-05
Bad to the BoneJames Dean, James Bond. Colin Farrell. Hugh Grant in Bridget Jones's Diary. That high school senior with the leather jacket who'll probably be a senior again next year. What do they all have in common? They smolder. They smirk. They sm

A good number of women do love thugs 60

Sat, 12/20/08 8:04 A GMT-05
tstrain101Not all women love thugs, but a good portion of 'em do.... It's kinda disturbing. But there's an old saying 'the heart wants what it wants'... can't change these chicks, you can only change urself. As a Black man, I&

Kindness and goodness in a man is not attractive 2623

Fri, 12/05/08 8:37 A GMT-05
<<But I suspect that not too many women like very much about a good guy. You don't really want to resist the bad guy do you? Most women see kindn

License to cheat 25

Mon, 11/17/08 6:27 A GMT-05
Ali Just because someone gets horny every so often doesn't give them a license to cheat on anybody. Those people have some underlying issues in their relationship and they don't want to bother working that out so they go get their itch scra

The Allure of the Badboy 526

Sat, 06/21/08 4:31 P GMT-05
Most girls have been raised to be "good girls". On the inside are emotions she's been repressing for years. She wants to experience the darkness and sexiness in life and that's where a "Badboy" comes into her world. Here is wher

Women always go for the rebellious man 177

Fri, 06/13/08 7:23 A GMT-05
 It seems that women always go for the rebellious man, the guy who lives by his own rules and can't be tamed. The guy who is filled with passion and desire. Is this guy for real? I've often wondered how these relationships finally play out. Do they

Are you bad enough to make the cut with women? 1170

Fri, 03/28/08 2:43 P GMT-05
Nice guys usually make every cut except the "I'll have sex with him" cut with women. He'll be labeled >>as everything but a sex partner whenever a woman's looking for one or as a lover. A nice guy is deemed as weak by women, and has a

It is that " macho" stuff that ALL WOMEN seek 196

Fri, 03/28/08 2:41 P GMT-05
Not all women will cheat. I am a submissive woman who met a very dominant guy and am very happy. Have been very happy since 1999. I never cheated on him. I never had the desire. Our life isn't perfect, there are good days and not so good days.. maybe

Live a life free of the soul-killling manipulations of others 448

Fri, 07/06/07 4:46 P GMT-05
THE PSYCHOPATH - The Mask of SanityThe QFS is committed to bringing to your attention any and all information that will help you to live a life free of the soul-killling manipulations of others.Our Sincere Thanks to the Owner of the website on Psycho

Women are programmed spurn weak men 542

Thu, 04/19/07 8:53 A GMT-05
No, you're told that all genetically "normal" women are "programmed" to favor a degree of assertiveness, physical strength, height, and beauty in males.  By "normal", I mean women who have the gene that triggers materna

Women think sex is bad 63

Sat, 03/10/07 7:25 A GMT-05
Strobelmpls Women think sex is basically bad, therefore they like bad boys.  When they date good guys it feels inapporiate to them, how can a good guy do something bad, like sex.  Furthermore, they want to be bad too, and they don't under

You make yourself look like a sucker in a woman's eyes 85

Fri, 03/09/07 10:54 A GMT-05
Theresa I've always been attracted to the bad boy type to a degree . It's that arrogance and that 'whatever' attitude that they have. I will say that I like nice guys too and that I have dated nice guys. The bad boys are the ones that will handle th

Bad Guys always win 90

Mon, 03/05/07 9:03 A GMT-05
Chris Based on women's post on this site there can be no doubt that they see only bad guys as the most desirable and datable. There is no doubt that they cannot feel attraction to a good guy. Got that good boys?

Nice and bad are all in your mind 64

Sun, 03/04/07 9:16 P GMT-05
VVickispringer Nice and bad are all in your mind.  Take responsibility, take the lead make a "fun" atmosphere and he will respond.  Bad boys usually are liars, that is the only thing I have a gainst them.  Now it might appe

Women like to look at muscles rather than glasses 97

Sun, 03/04/07 9:13 A GMT-05
tcbaby4UNC I am a woman and I personally have fallen for more bad boys than good, but I guess you have to realize that, women like to look at muscles rather than glasses, I am in no way trying to be mean. I had a lover for 2 years and he was a &quo

Find a tough man who loves you and would protect you from any and everythingl 205

Sat, 03/03/07 11:05 P GMT-05
Ly3370 Of course nice boys finish last, especialy when a woman is danger. Tell me, what does a nice boy do? Wait for the police and watch his woman get hurt while he is laying on the ground: There is an inbetween. Find one if the nice guy is so im

The best thing about Bad Boys is... 381

Tue, 02/13/07 8:58 A GMT-05
The best thing about Bad Boys is that you already have some daring on face level. You know, they already have the motorcycle,. On the other hand, Nice Guys are extremely exciting because there is always a bad boy waiting to get out and w