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Being nice, kind and gentle does not mean trying to please everyone 58

Tuesday, 8 April 2008 12:06 P GMT-05
sophia “My mother raised me to be a nice guy. She told me that women liked gentle kind men.” As far as I know mothers tried to instill in their children since time began good values. This is nothing new that suddenly came about in the six

Gifts of our environment 65

Monday, 7 April 2008 12:07 P GMT-05
'sophia' “We are all just talking apes wanting to replicate. That's all it comes down to. “ That is until we decide to live a conscious life. In studies done with so-called animal children, that is children raised by animals.

Why should you want or need a bad boy? 426

Sunday, 2 March 2008 7:03 A GMT-05
It seems to me that more women than men would like to admit have never wanted to be with Bad Boys, nor have been with bad boys. I have never either, not even in my teens, and I know other women too. If you as a woman can create your own excitement, w

Men are emotional camels 396

Saturday, 8 December 2007 6:26 P GMT-05
Sophia Men are emotional camels. I read one of those linked articles, and it was dead on. Men can go for weeks, months and even years without needing significant emotional stimuli, while for women it's almost ESSENTIAL for them to have some sort of

People get married before they know themselves 207

Sunday, 22 July 2007 8:34 P GMT-05
sophia It is a sad state of affairs. It certainly should not encourage children to get married, but strangely they still do. In my country marriages are still on the increase, and by all surprises divorce statistics actually actually slightly down.

If you believe that you are completely worthless 19

Sunday, 22 July 2007 3:15 P GMT-05
sophia  It is indeed hard to begin to build up self-esteem when you feel you have no basis to move from. Perhaps you need to then look beyond yourself to find a basis. What I mean by that is, if you believe that you are completely worthless

If you live to find ways not to be rejected, you will never find your specialness 71

Monday, 9 July 2007 8:05 P GMT-05
sophiaI think that one must first acknowledge that rejection will always bring pain. None among us are immune to experiencing pain from rejection. The inner child will always long for acceptance. A child still acts on its inner intent and cannot unde

Self love or Narcissism? 73

Saturday, 30 June 2007 6:09 A GMT-05
sophiaI find it interesting that most people see self love as the same as Narcissism. Narcissism needs constant praise, and involves an inability to empathize. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others. A

Low self-esteem has become an excuse 98

Wednesday, 27 June 2007 6:15 A GMT-05
sophia In today's world, low self-esteem has become an excuse, a scapegoat for so many so-called evils. But really what does saying you have a low self-esteem, actual mean you are saying? It means that you are putting the blame outside of yoursel

I do not use affirmations 52

Wednesday, 27 June 2007 6:14 A GMT-05
sophia Dave, to be honest with you, I do not use affirmations, although many will swear by it. If you just say an affirmation, without believing it, it is not going to bring any change. It is not magic words that will be bring change in itself. Negat

To say that a woman does not have any honor 64

Saturday, 23 June 2007 6:18 A GMT-05
sophia If the branch is to flower, it must honor its roots. - Titinga Frederic Pacere To honor something is to value it. Therefore to say that a woman does not have any honor is to say she has no values. Could one then rather say that a woman has dif

I don't have many female friends 69

Friday, 4 May 2007 7:27 A GMT-05
sophia I have never really had many female friends, certainly never the kind of friends that I had regular social interaction with, but this I must say; When ever I faced a serious crisis, it was women who came and rallied around me, and offered me t

The female of the world... 42

Sunday, 29 April 2007 5:50 P GMT-05
'sophia'  " ... can an occupied people--physically occupied inside, internally invaded--be free; can those with a metaphysically compromised privacy have self-determination; can those without a biologically based physical integrity

It is possible to make love happen deliberately 29

Sunday, 22 April 2007 8:33 A GMT-05
sophia has just left the following comment:It is possible to make love happen deliberately. If you look at the “accidental” nature of most love relationships, what they all have in common is that you normally find someone that matches you

"Therefore women are good only for sex" 35

Sunday, 22 April 2007 5:46 A GMT-05
sophia has just left the following comment:“Therefore women are good only for sex. “ This is true to a degree, however, it goes far deeper than just the sexual act. A man needs a woman to define him as a man, and a woman needs a man to de

A person's attitude towards love is also a reflection of their attitude towards life. 20

Saturday, 21 April 2007 8:41 A GMT-05
sophia has just left the following comment:A person's attitude towards love is also a reflection of their attitude towards life. The words artificial and hollow is a very apt description of surface living, prevailing in a consumerist world. How c

Why do men fear rejection by women? 717

Sunday, 18 February 2007 10:09 A GMT-05
I find it hard to reply to this question on a gender basis only. In traditional terms, the rejection men experience is an active rejection, whereas what women experience, is more a passive rejection. For women it is one of being overlooked, not being

Not all can face solitude and benifit from its refreshing qualities - by sophia 106

Sunday, 4 February 2007 7:51 A GMT-05
sophia Solitude, yes indeed there is something wonderful about solitude, especialy solitude spent in nature. Yet not all all can face solitude and benifit from its refreshing qualities. For Jung, solitude was a “fount of healing”.

Is marriage doomed for extinction?

Saturday, 25 November 2006 2:11 P GMT-05
Mamasan, I agree with you. If more people were just as honest as you are a lot of the problems we face today in relationships could be avoided. I must admit that when I look at the general state of marriage today, it does look like it is an instituti

Women can feel passion in a man

Saturday, 25 November 2006 1:20 P GMT-05
Women can feel passion in a man. Actually passion is important for survival. If you have a goal you have to passionate not to give up at the first setback. Bad boys are passionate about being bad boys. They don't give up easily either, in fact they l

Masculine Roles are Confused

Saturday, 18 November 2006 10:02 A GMT-05
I remember reading an article on the concern over the drop in birth rate in Western countries and the growing aging of the population. They wondered what caused women not to want to have children anymore. No wonder less and less women wants to be mot

The rights of individual

Tuesday, 7 November 2006 9:29 A GMT-05
I do believe that there was a reason for the monotheistic counter movement. I also believe that although often it is hard to see why certain changes happened throughout the history of mankind, there is a subtle pattern, with the apparent randomness t

Be safe when socialising.

Saturday, 4 November 2006 8:15 A GMT-05
Be safe when socialising.   Follow these simple tips when you are have a night out : Do not accept drinks which you have not seen being poured Do not leave your drink unattended Where possible try to drink from bottles Look out for str

Use silence appropriately

Tuesday, 31 October 2006 8:50 A GMT-05
It does require skill to use silence appropriately sophia Silence can be a bluescreen for the imagination. It does however require skill to use silence appropriately, for silence can speak louder than words. There are many kinds of silences, awk

I convinced myself that I did not have any needs

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 7:47 A GMT-05
sophia The loner, that one is for me. I have always been highly sensitive, easily hurt, and as a child and teenager I withdrew into my own world where I was safe. But life has a way of drawing you out in some way. I wonder whether the loner pla