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Sophia I am surprised at the negative reaction in response to the women's request to indulge in a sexual fantasy with them. Perhaps you can begin to understand why some women find bad boys sexy; if a woman made such a request to an open minded, sex

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Use silence appropriately 455

Thu, 10/30/08 5:23 A GMT-05

It does require skill to use silence appropriately sophia Silence can be a bluescreen for the imagination. It does however require skill to use silence appropriately, for silence can speak louder than words. There are many kinds of silences, awk

Low self-esteem has become an excuse 566

Wed, 10/29/08 6:01 A GMT-05

sophia In today's world, low self-esteem has become an excuse, a scapegoat for so many so-called evils. But really what does saying you have a low self-esteem, actual mean you are saying? It means that you are putting the blame outside of yoursel

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The bad boy on her mind. It's all about her FEELINGS 321

Sun, 10/05/08 6:14 A GMT-05

I do not think that it is him that she cannot get out of her mind, but rather that it is the feeling that she cannot get out of her mind. How he made her feel. She is longing to feel like that in herself. She did not have sex for sex sake with her lo

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Men are emotional camels 670

Sat, 07/12/08 2:09 P GMT-05

Sophia Men are emotional camels. I read one of those linked articles, and it was dead on. Men can go for weeks, months and even years without needing significant emotional stimuli, while for women it's almost ESSENTIAL for them to have some sort of

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Self love or Narcissism? 294

Sat, 06/07/08 7:19 A GMT-05

sophiaI find it interesting that most people see self love as the same as Narcissism. Narcissism needs constant praise, and involves an inability to empathize. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others. A

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Being nice, kind and gentle does not mean trying to please everyone 173

Tue, 06/03/08 3:47 P GMT-05

sophia “My mother raised me to be a nice guy. She told me that women liked gentle kind men.” As far as I know mothers tried to instill in their children since time began good values. This is nothing new that suddenly came about in the six

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Gifts of our environment 65

Mon, 04/07/08 12:07 P GMT-05

'sophia' “We are all just talking apes wanting to replicate. That's all it comes down to. “ That is until we decide to live a conscious life. In studies done with so-called animal children, that is children raised by animals.

Why should you want or need a bad boy? 426

Sun, 03/02/08 7:03 A GMT-05

It seems to me that more women than men would like to admit have never wanted to be with Bad Boys, nor have been with bad boys. I have never either, not even in my teens, and I know other women too. If you as a woman can create your own excitement, w

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People get married before they know themselves 207

Sun, 07/22/07 8:34 P GMT-05

sophia It is a sad state of affairs. It certainly should not encourage children to get married, but strangely they still do. In my country marriages are still on the increase, and by all surprises divorce statistics actually actually slightly down.

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If you believe that you are completely worthless 19

Sun, 07/22/07 3:15 P GMT-05

sophia It is indeed hard to begin to build up self-esteem when you feel you have no basis to move from. Perhaps you need to then look beyond yourself to find a basis. What I mean by that is, if you believe that you are completely worthless

If you live to find ways not to be rejected, you will never find your specialness 71

Mon, 07/09/07 8:05 P GMT-05

sophiaI think that one must first acknowledge that rejection will always bring pain. None among us are immune to experiencing pain from rejection. The inner child will always long for acceptance. A child still acts on its inner intent and cannot unde

I do not use affirmations 52

Wed, 06/27/07 6:14 A GMT-05

sophia Dave, to be honest with you, I do not use affirmations, although many will swear by it. If you just say an affirmation, without believing it, it is not going to bring any change. It is not magic words that will be bring change in itself. Negat

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To say that a woman does not have any honor 64

Sat, 06/23/07 6:18 A GMT-05

sophia If the branch is to flower, it must honor its roots. - Titinga Frederic Pacere To honor something is to value it. Therefore to say that a woman does not have any honor is to say she has no values. Could one then rather say that a woman has dif

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I don't have many female friends 69

Fri, 05/04/07 7:27 A GMT-05

sophia I have never really had many female friends, certainly never the kind of friends that I had regular social interaction with, but this I must say; When ever I faced a serious crisis, it was women who came and rallied around me, and offered me t

The female of the world... 42

Sun, 04/29/07 5:50 P GMT-05

'sophia' " ... can an occupied people--physically occupied inside, internally invaded--be free; can those with a metaphysically compromised privacy have self-determination; can those without a biologically based physical integrity

It is possible to make love happen deliberately 29

Sun, 04/22/07 8:33 A GMT-05

sophia has just left the following comment:It is possible to make love happen deliberately. If you look at the “accidental” nature of most love relationships, what they all have in common is that you normally find someone that matches you

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"Therefore women are good only for sex" 35

Sun, 04/22/07 5:46 A GMT-05

sophia has just left the following comment:“Therefore women are good only for sex. “ This is true to a degree, however, it goes far deeper than just the sexual act. A man needs a woman to define him as a man, and a woman needs a man to de

A person's attitude towards love is also a reflection of their attitude towards life. 20

Sat, 04/21/07 8:41 A GMT-05

sophia has just left the following comment:A person's attitude towards love is also a reflection of their attitude towards life. The words artificial and hollow is a very apt description of surface living, prevailing in a consumerist world. How c

Why do men fear rejection by women? 717

Sun, 02/18/07 10:09 A GMT-05

I find it hard to reply to this question on a gender basis only. In traditional terms, the rejection men experience is an active rejection, whereas what women experience, is more a passive rejection. For women it is one of being overlooked, not being

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Not all can face solitude and benifit from its refreshing qualities - by sophia 106

Sun, 02/04/07 7:51 A GMT-05

sophia Solitude, yes indeed there is something wonderful about solitude, especialy solitude spent in nature. Yet not all all can face solitude and benifit from its refreshing qualities. For Jung, solitude was a “fount of healing”.

Is marriage doomed for extinction?

Sat, 11/25/06 2:11 P GMT-05

Mamasan, I agree with you. If more people were just as honest as you are a lot of the problems we face today in relationships could be avoided. I must admit that when I look at the general state of marriage today, it does look like it is an instituti

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Women can feel passion in a man

Sat, 11/25/06 1:20 P GMT-05

Women can feel passion in a man. Actually passion is important for survival. If you have a goal you have to passionate not to give up at the first setback. Bad boys are passionate about being bad boys. They don't give up easily either, in fact they l

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Masculine Roles are Confused

Sat, 11/18/06 10:02 A GMT-05

I remember reading an article on the concern over the drop in birth rate in Western countries and the growing aging of the population. They wondered what caused women not to want to have children anymore. No wonder less and less women wants to be mot

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The rights of individual

Tue, 11/07/06 9:29 A GMT-05

I do believe that there was a reason for the monotheistic counter movement. I also believe that although often it is hard to see why certain changes happened throughout the history of mankind, there is a subtle pattern, with the apparent randomness t

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