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The sexual revolution and hookup culture (240 reads)

Sat, 04/18/09 6:39 A GMT-05
Mamasan The sexual revolution and hookup culture are two different things in my mind. People don't have to become irresponsible just because they're free. In fact, with more rights comes more responsibility. The sexual revolution was about gett

No satisfaction and sex (207 reads)

Mon, 04/13/09 6:36 A GMT-05
Mamasan Good or bad sex isn't about judgement. It's about satisfaction. In a committed relationship there is time to learn one another and all that lovey dovey stuff...but outside of a committed relationship, anybody who's having sex should know

Guys aren't looking for commitments as enthusiastically these days (45 reads)

Sat, 03/14/09 9:53 P GMT-05
Mamasan  It's different nowadays. Guys aren't looking for commitments as enthusiastically as they used to because they don't have to have it to get sex these days. I mean, they never did. There have always been prostitutes, and if a

Understanding women (2574 reads)

Mon, 03/09/09 3:25 P GMT-05
How women use men -Mamasan   Though there are some exceptions, women are generally socialized to be flirtatious and pleasing. We often feign sexual interest in men we really have no attraction to whatsoever, or who we know are inappropriate

Unless you're VERY attractive, and have a nicely sized package ... 1369

Sat, 12/13/08 7:07 A GMT-05
Mamasan  Prostitution is legal here in Israel, and in many other countries, and the result is that wifey type women behave even more "frigid". Unless you're VERY attractive,

Women use flirtatious behaviors to get what they want 1080

Thu, 12/04/08 8:42 A GMT-05
Mamasan Women aren't normally raised with a working idea of honor, trust, and good faith. They don't know where to draw the lines, so when they get crossed, people get confused, disappointed, and hurt, they don't see how they

Is marriage slavery? 1110

Thu, 09/25/08 7:17 A GMT-05
I know alot of guys married to women who deprive them of sex and treat them like money machines. Some of them knew me before they got married, and some of them were attracted to me and had a chance before...and then they complain to me about their wi

Wy Women test men 1173

Sun, 05/25/08 7:49 A GMT-05
Mamasan In almost every relationship in which a strong man is with a strong woman, that woman will test him in a way that could well shatter the relationship. What's going on under the surface of any of those situations in which she was waiti

Are women equal to men in malice and trickery? 55

Fri, 04/25/08 4:45 A GMT-05
Mamasan My second ex went through something similar with his ex wife. She succeeded in tricking him though, and so she basically got everything, and he ended up having to pay for the divorce and all...but he got his freedom. That was the important th

Less exposure to the opposite gender 38

Tue, 03/25/08 6:29 A GMT-05
Mamasan When people have fewer siblings, they have less exposure to the opposite gender in a platonic relationship that isn't parental. A guy with no sisters or with only one sister isn't going to get to know women as well as a guy with say,

So, what do you do for a living? 32

Mon, 03/24/08 6:34 A GMT-05
Mamasan I think the selectivity based on academic degrees is silly to begin with. Someone having had the opportunity to get a degree doesn't really make them more intelligent or resourceful. The folks I know who are deepest in debt are the highes

Many men complain about how they're treated by women 14

Sun, 03/23/08 3:48 P GMT-05
MamasanI believe that we get based on what we give. The law of attraction is that people will come based on what you're advertising. Some want to nurture it, but most will want to exploit it. That's just the way things work, and a brave

Friend or lover? 98

Sun, 03/23/08 2:47 P GMT-05
Mamasan The advantage of the friends first style is that you know what you're getting into before you become too deeply involved. When I say friends first I don't mean that you can't tell them that you're attracted to them or somethin

The women who go to sperm banks 37

Wed, 03/19/08 7:10 P GMT-05
Mamasan Guys, the women who go to sperm banks are a far cry from average. These are usually Lesbians who don't want to make babies the old fashioned way, women in a couple in which the man has fertility problems, and women who haven't been ab

I believe that passion can grow from friendship 488

Tue, 03/18/08 7:36 A GMT-05
I have a test for the friend trap. If a person doesn't treat me as well as their or my other platonic friends, then they don't want to be my friend. There's no intimacy there, so there's nothing on which to build respect and passion. I believe that p

Shallow people care little about their targets 48

Mon, 03/10/08 6:53 A GMT-05
'Mamasan' Shallow people marry/date circumstances, not people. It's easier to see in cultures where this kind of practice is more obvious, but the same thing happens in the west as well. I would be happy to live and let live in this, but

Are you considered exploitable/disposable? 334

Sat, 03/01/08 6:54 A GMT-05
Mamasan Well, everyone has their physical preferences. There's nothing wrong with that. The problem is when people chase a particular type for the status, or because people with those features are considered exploitable/disposable, and not really

Status 271

Sun, 02/17/08 9:21 A GMT-05
mamasan"A woman who breaks ranks with the rest and dates other men off the radar or disagrees with socially approved mates risks, at the very least, a few odd looks and scrutiny and at worst, expulsion from their social group. " I think it&

We live in an age of weak men 214

Thu, 11/22/07 8:26 A GMT-05
Mamasan It's like I keep saying. It's not about what's beautiful as much as it is about what's considered feminine. We live in an age of weak men, so naturally they will perceive greater weakness as greater femininity. I have a "more for m

*if* he wants to keep her/him 97

Wed, 09/12/07 7:15 A GMT-05
Mamasan Well...men tend to make these kinds of mistakes when they think they can afford to. If a guy was fairly sure that indecisiveness would result in getting dumped, he would be more decisive if he wanted to keep his partner. Notice, I said *if* h

I've become alot less nice 21

Sun, 07/22/07 8:45 P GMT-05
Mamasan Recently, I've become alot less nice. I realized that I was allowing myself to get emotionally drained by people, so I recovered some of my old hard shell...just enough for reasonable protection, but not as much as I used to shut people o

Women do indeed care 13

Sun, 07/22/07 3:16 P GMT-05
MamasanWomen do indeed care about our friends' and female relatives' romantic and sexual happiness. Even in very conservative cultures, we talk about these things and wish each other well. ...and even my mom told me at some point, "You n

In my opinion, state marriage is a joke 12

Sun, 07/22/07 3:15 P GMT-05
Mamasan I don't believe the state has any place in romantic relationships. People should feel free to come and go as they please, and the courts should spend the time they are on divorces now, on updating things like child support, paternity, cus

You're the man. Take a chance. 18

Sat, 07/21/07 2:05 P GMT-05
 Mamasan  You have to stop looking at it as them giving you a chance. You're the man. Take a chance. If they blow the opportunity while they've got your attention, then turn your attention elsewhere post haste. ...and trust your gut

Are you a good girl? Are you morally superior to your partners? 78

Sun, 07/01/07 9:47 A GMT-05
Mamasan Those so-called good girls who seemingly martyr themselves for bad boys aren't actually so good. If you do just a little probing you'll find out that she's not actually a martyr. She's a masochist. We say in bdsm that a s