relationships

why are relationships so difficult?

All feelings are welcome here

contact me at:
relationships3@aol.com

http://twitter.com/relationships3
Custom Search

Our Sponsors

More

Blog Status

  • 5 yrs 21 wks 3 days old
  • Updated: 27 Nov 2009
  • 8,440 entries
  • 34,295 comments

Quick Poll

Are women really attracted bad boy/jerks more than than they are to caring responsible guys?
Yes
No
Not Sure

Linkblogs

relationship talk

Fri, 02/23/07 12:13 A GMT-05

Newsfeeds

Sun, 09/10/06 12:07 P GMT-05

Leo Buscaglia Quotes

Sun, 08/27/06 11:32 A GMT-05

About Psychology

Sat, 07/08/06 11:48 P GMT-05
Tags:  

Fault tolerance

Sat, 06/03/06 1:25 P GMT-05
Tags:    

Social Psychology Network

Sun, 05/28/06 5:15 P GMT-05

Go Ask Alice

Fri, 04/14/06 9:09 P GMT-05
Tags:  

Picturing Women

Thu, 03/30/06 2:55 P GMT-05
Tags:  

The Attitude Doctor

Wed, 03/29/06 7:01 P GMT-05

From Sophia's Blog verewig

Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

Call it the eternal embrace.

http://verewig.blog-city.com/

Encyclopedia of Philosophy

Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

Midlife Crisis

Midlife Crisis Thoughts

Mailing List

Search Box

 

Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting
RelationshipTalk.net
Mars, Venues and in-between

What Women Want

Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

How does he make her feel so sexy?

Women's thoughts concerning size

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

The Size of it

Why do Women Crave Bad Guys?

Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting Bad Boys

Dominance



Losers beware. Know your place! (2,769)

Tue, 10/13/09 10:27 P GMT-05
Originally, the terms Alpha, Beta, and even Gammas and Omega male applied to animals who live in packs, such as wolves and apes. The Alpha is the dominant one...The strongest, meanest and the one who gets to have sex with all the females...The Betas

Human alpha, beta, and omega: the pecking order (3,179 reads)

Wed, 04/08/09 7:22 A GMT-05
The subject of social dynamics, male/female relations, and the alpha/beta/omega dynamic is something I have been studying actively for months, both in reading and in life experience. I decided to take this study up after having had many girlfriends b

Definition of Alpha Male (921 reads)

Fri, 03/13/09 8:16 A GMT-05
Definitions of Alpha Male on the Web:a term used to describe a macho male character within a romance.www.fictionforum.net/writers/articles/art01-02.htmlAn alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community to whom the others follow and def

Not all women are like that (31 reads)

Fri, 03/13/09 8:12 A GMT-05
John "No one is attracted to a doormat but to think all women like men that treat them like shit is not true. Agaiin only screwed up women like that. " PamVery true Pan. Not all women like that. There's one group of women who would neve

How do you compare to other men? 481

Wed, 03/07/07 9:10 A GMT-05
Do you think that if there were enough nice men with confidence women would be attracted to jerks less often?"I believe so, because nice guys with confidence would be *competing* with the jerks instead of *submitting* to them in social arenas.Of

it's all about the people in power staying in power.

Sun, 02/12/06 2:16 P GMT-05
Boys are trained to be nonassertive, take their medication and sit attentively at their desks. No wonder we are a nation of wussies. Never question authority. Authority knows what's best for you. In a pigs eye.     Mamasan made th

more in touch with our feelings

Sun, 02/12/06 8:32 A GMT-05
We were told that we needed to be more in touch with our feelings and all that shit in order to better communicate with women. But men's listening to and abiding by all that estrogen induced mumbo jumbo actually made women feel repulsed by us. Femini

most women do need to be dominated

Sun, 02/12/06 8:09 A GMT-05
Many if not most women do need to be dominated, some are quite dominant themselves, and actually need someone who is more submissive. The problem as I see it is in training. There is a grand mismatch situation going on because people who didn't have

Why men cheat: if you think it's only about getting some, think again

Sun, 01/15/06 7:39 P GMT-05
Why good men cheat: if you think it's only about getting some, think again. Baggage and bad judgment—and even a woman's own behavior—are often at the root of a man's betrayal  by Nick Charles Tony knew he and his girlfriend, Ruby, w

A guy shouldn't need to hit her

Fri, 10/21/05 7:00 A GMT-05
I always thought it was the WOMEN's responsibility to make sure their "girl feelings don't mess up a good relationship". After all, we're all adults here, right? That means you take charge of yourself. Otherwise you're just out of control.

It's Time to Demote the Alpha Male

Thu, 10/06/05 8:07 P GMT-05
With his usual grace, honesty, and wit, Tom Shugart posted a response to my fantasy of a world with a diminished level of testosterone. He mentions that women are attracted to strong, aggressive, powerful men. In other words, Alpha Males. The kind of

Men Prefer Subordinate Women to Equals

Tue, 09/20/05 9:49 P GMT-05
NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Men would rather marry their female assistants than equal-ranking women or their supervisors, according to social psychologists. The results are based on a study of men's ratings of imaginary women with different job title

Do a lot of guys get incorrectly labeled wusses for being sensitive at all?

Fri, 09/09/05 5:33 P GMT-05
I think a lot of guys get incorrectly labeled wusses for being sensitive at all, or for that matter having any feelings besides what the woman in question wants them to feel. If you're a guy and you get angry, the woman says you're "making a big

Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?

Mon, 08/22/05 10:46 P GMT-05
 "What's Wrong With Nice Guys?"   ...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones? This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense.

Bad boys are the only men that treat her like a real HUMAN BEING

Sun, 08/21/05 4:30 P GMT-05
She becomes the dominant and you become the submissive. ... In other words, jerksand bad boys are the only men that treat her like a real HUMAN BEING instead of trying to buy their way into wining her over.It’s not because jerks and bad boys are go

Learning to be more assertive can take time

Sun, 08/21/05 4:21 P GMT-05
My husband was very passive by nature for the many years. His father was very naturally a servant in every aspect of his life. He not only served his family but also the community he lived in. So my husband’s role model was always that of a very pa

I need a dominant guy

Tue, 07/26/05 11:03 A GMT-05
I attract the nicest guys who treat me so well, but if they aren't alittle bit dominating then I get really turned off! I feel bad telling the sweet boy that he's not my type, but what can you do? If it's not there it's not there. Kitty

Are You Man Enough? macho - is this what women really want?

Mon, 04/25/05 1:36 P GMT-05
Do women want a real man?by Denis Leary Here's a cold hard fact that you must now chew and swallow: if you are reading this, you are not macho. Period. Case closed. Real men do not read anything other than GUNS AND AMMO, SPORTS ILLUSTRATED, or SHAVED