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Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern (61 reads)

Sun, 09/27/09 7:43 A GMT-05
Michelle LangleThey push men for commitmentThey get what they wantThey lose interest in sexThey become attracted to someone elseThey start cheatingThey become angry and resentfulThey begin telling their partners that they need time apartThey blame th

Avoiding the divorce "Fear Factor" (522 reads)

Tue, 03/17/09 6:34 A GMT-05
Once Burned, Twice ShyAvoiding the divorce "Fear Factor"  Once burned, twice shy, right? It's natural that your divorce has made you gun shy about future intimate relationships. It's also easier to stay out of the game of love than come up

Why Women Dump Men. Get lost loser. 4260

Mon, 08/04/08 3:56 P GMT-05
The following are the top reasons women dump their men:- 1. We outgrew each other2. He cheated 3. for money 4. he is dishonest 5. he did not want to commit. The webiste www.askmen.com listed some of the reasons as follows:- 1. he was selfish in bed..

Learning to cope with breakups! 943

Sat, 06/30/07 7:51 P GMT-05
Our society has been called "The Divorce Culture". A self- fulfilling prophesy!With 75 percent or more of relationships failing you had better get used to separations and breakups. The experts tell us it's going to get much worse before it

People stay with each other out of habit and obligation 39

Fri, 03/09/07 5:21 P GMT-05
personal I have never seen a situation where a relation has trully worked, Grandparents, Parents, personal relationships. In these I have only seen that people stay with each other out of habit and obligation. The truth is we are not will

Why do Relationships Fail? And What to do About it! 431

Mon, 03/05/07 5:53 P GMT-05
Why do Relationships Fail? And Relationship Restoration! What Happens In relationships? It’s easy to fall in love. But it’s a lot harder to stay in love. We all want love to last. We all want to live happily ever after. No one decides to get marr

Why men cheat: if you think it's only about getting some, think again

Sun, 01/15/06 7:39 P GMT-05
Why good men cheat: if you think it's only about getting some, think again. Baggage and bad judgment—and even a woman's own behavior—are often at the root of a man's betrayal  by Nick Charles Tony knew he and his girlfriend, Ruby, w

A person willingness to accept imperfection in another

Sun, 01/15/06 10:24 A GMT-05
 Life is a series of difficult decisions, some can choose to overpower their urges, and some cannot. As long as no one dies from the infidelity, a lesson can be learned on either side of the relationship. from that point both parties can choose

So the women blames the man for her cheating and leaves him."

Tue, 11/08/05 7:32 A GMT-05
So the women blames the man for her cheating and leaves him." According to this thread: http://relationships.blog-city.com/why_wives_and_girlfriends_cheat.htm , It's all the guy's fault. Apparantly men are responsible for women's immorality (I h

Men do actually blame themselves for thier mate leaving them.

Tue, 11/08/05 7:28 A GMT-05
You know. Men do actually blame themselves for thier mate leaving them. You know where they are now? Go to your nearby cemetary and take a cold, hard look at them. Because they KILLED themselves having such a notion in their heads. Now granted, some

"I'm leaving you. It just isn't good anymore"

Sun, 11/06/05 4:19 P GMT-05
War crimes of the heart By: Beverly FlaniganSummary: How to fix the suffering from the wars between individuals in intimate relationships. Writing Wrongs One Wednesday afternoon, Ann Roland drove home from her job as a nurse at the local hospital, ju

reasons women reject and dump a guy.

Sun, 11/06/05 11:38 A GMT-05
Women often say the following are reasons to reject a guy."too nice""low status male""trying to get my approval is unattractive""unlikely to prosper financially, "not self-confident or manly""unattrac

no divorce in my family

Sun, 10/30/05 2:15 P GMT-05
In my family there are no divorce, past or present. No, it is not for religious reasons. I look at the men in my family, although they all have a naughty streak in them with a great sense of humour, they are responsible fathers and husbands, good pro

Just break up with them.

Mon, 10/17/05 5:41 P GMT-05
How does someone cause someone else to cheat on them? If you don't want to be with someone, just break up with them.  DJ Good question

Percentage of Divorces in Selected Countries

Mon, 10/17/05 8:25 A GMT-05
Percentage of Divorces in Selected CountriesDivorce rates of countries Country Divorces (as % of marriages) Country Divorce Rate (Per 1000 population per year) BelarusRussian FederationSwedenLatviaUkraineCzech RepublicBelgiumFinla

The betrayal by a lover

Tue, 10/11/05 6:02 A GMT-05
 "The betrayal by a lover can trigger an ego death followed by the birth of a more soul-rooted self and the discovery of the larger story in which we play a soulful part. But if we are going to redeem our romantic betrayals, we must ultimately

Self-Compassion May Help

Sat, 09/03/05 9:54 A GMT-05
When Life Is Rough, Self-Compassion May HelpBy Miranda HittiWebMD Medical News  Reviewed By Brunilda Nazario, MDon Monday, August 22, 2005  Aug. 22, 2005 -- If life is a journey, we all run into potholes, and new research shows that those jolts mig

Women don't worry about OUR feelings

Thu, 09/01/05 5:37 P GMT-05
Please.Women don't worry about OUR feelings, they worry about their own. Because which is the lesser evil? Being straight up w/ the guy and telling him she is not into him like that so he can cut his losses NOW or continuing to lead him on while play

The blirtacious wives club: a pattern in unhappy marriages

Thu, 08/11/05 5:06 P GMT-05
Psychology Today,    by Carlin FloraSHE CARPS UNTIL SHE'S BLUE IN THE FACE. HE silently stews. And neither is happy.Researchers from the University of Texas in Austin have found that critical, loquacious women mixed with taciturn men can make a t

I was very disappointed that women would be so cold (439 reads)

Thu, 08/11/05 7:59 A GMT-05
I know this girl who broke up with her boyfriend on Valentine's day, of all days. In her list of complaints, she cited he was too short (actually he was like about her height). Predictably though, lots of her complaints had to do with things he could

Sure, it's common for women to fall in and out of "love".

Wed, 08/10/05 10:52 P GMT-05
sure, it's common for women to fall in and out of "love". however, more than likely, there wasn't true love there to begin with(please refer to my comments about "chemistry"). there are a small percentage of men and women who real

When it's nasty, it's not a breakup — it's a dump job

Wed, 07/27/05 8:10 A GMT-05
By Karen S. Peterson, Delia Coleman says when she was in her 20s, it was the men who were doing the dumping, ending a romance. "The guys wanted to rack up the numbers" of women who had succumbed to their charms, says the 32-year-old Chicago

boredom in marriage

Wed, 07/27/05 6:27 A GMT-05
There are 3 things you can't escape in life: 1) death 2) taxes 3) boredom in marriage Let's face it if you get married there WILL be routine and sometimes you WILL get bored. Knowing that up front and accepting that can help you prepare how to handle

Good girls and bad girls both hate nice guys

Tue, 07/26/05 10:30 A GMT-05
 Last I checked Good girls and bad girls hate nice guys. Only bad boys get the girls both good and bad. What does her being bad or good have to do with nice guys getting nice girls. I am a nice guys and I just found out about this, so yes it will ke

alimony, custody, and child support laws

Sat, 07/23/05 10:42 A GMT-05
SR said, "I would like for you to point out---CURRENTLY---what supposed oppressive elements in our society are holding women down in a purposeful manner." Hello...alimony, custody, and child support laws and precedents. The default should b