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Losers beware. Know your place! (2,769)

Tue, 10/13/09 10:27 P GMT-05
Originally, the terms Alpha, Beta, and even Gammas and Omega male applied to animals who live in packs, such as wolves and apes. The Alpha is the dominant one...The strongest, meanest and the one who gets to have sex with all the females...The Betas

Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern (61 reads)

Sun, 09/27/09 7:43 A GMT-05
Michelle LangleThey push men for commitmentThey get what they wantThey lose interest in sexThey become attracted to someone elseThey start cheatingThey become angry and resentfulThey begin telling their partners that they need time apartThey blame th

Why Women want a dangerous rebellious man (1,943 reads)

Sun, 06/14/09 6:49 A GMT-05
WHY DOES SHE RESENT ME WHEN I TREAT HER NICELY?Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen I am a tad troubled by what I've been reading in your column. You talk a lot about what to do to find and keep a girl, but you don't seem to address the issue of wheth

Definition of Alpha Male (921 reads)

Fri, 03/13/09 8:16 A GMT-05
Definitions of Alpha Male on the Web:a term used to describe a macho male character within a romance.www.fictionforum.net/writers/articles/art01-02.htmlAn alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community to whom the others follow and def

Girls gone wild 1801

Sun, 01/25/09 9:45 P GMT-05
The Main Cause of DIVORCE A study from England concludes that the largest cause of the over-whelming divorce rate is bad behavior of women. Feminism once stood for a belief that career aspirations and social roles should not be limited by gender.

Men must adopt some of the Bad Boy mentality 204

Wed, 12/24/08 1:27 P GMT-05
 Men pretty much are forced to adopt at least some of the Bad Boy mentality to be deemed "worthy" dating & sex-wise in the feminine mind. This is basically the reality that exists nowadays. Chivalry, manners, and even simple kindness c

Narcissitic man-castrating control freaks 2409

Sat, 12/13/08 7:00 A GMT-05
I am Asian and have little contact with Caucasian women apart from one science message board that I actively visited and posted (until recently).  There were 3 single good-looking women posters (they posted their pictures) on the board and o

Self-Hate 546

Sun, 11/30/08 7:07 A GMT-05
In Neurosis and Human Growth, Karen Horney explains how the pride system generates self-hate. But it seems to me that we should replace, in our scheme, but not eliminate, Horney's concept of self-hate with the more fundamental, comprehensive, and app

Women's orgasm has little to do with love 2718

Sat, 11/29/08 7:00 A GMT-05
Explosive Findings!If we use his study's findings to understand how we humans are designed to behave in the sexual domain, says Randy Thomhill, Ph.D., then we are better equipped to deal with problems that arise in relationships. He points to the fol

You are what you think 283

Sun, 11/23/08 6:42 A GMT-05
Psychology gurus report that women fall into depression more frequently than men. One of the treatments for depression is called cognitive therapy. Cognitive therapy in a nutshell says that feelings are not facts. Cognitive therapy seems to be the t

Emotional Dependency or Emotional Responsibility 1445

Tue, 11/18/08 6:25 A GMT-05
 Emotional dependency means getting one's good feelings from outside oneself. It means needing to get filled from outside rather than from within. Who or what do you believe is responsible for your emotional wellbeing? There are numerous

Evolutionary psychologists reports cause men to fear women 797

Sat, 10/11/08 8:45 A GMT-05
Evolutionary psychologists tell us that women will cheat on their husbands with an alpha male when she's ovulating. They cheat in order for her to conceive children with better immune systems.Women fake orgasms with their husbands to hide their i

Don't put up with any crap from women! 243

Fri, 06/13/08 9:02 P GMT-05
From A real Woman Subject: You men are great Message:Hey, just wanted to say thanks for your site. It occurs to me lately that most women need to grow up and learn their place. I'm ashamed to belong to the gender that does not think,

I just want to find a man that isn't a crybaby 597

Sat, 06/07/08 6:43 A GMT-05
KStruble01 I would like to find a good mix of both. I guess maybe a nice guy in public, holds the door and all of that. But a bad boy in the bedroom. Maybe?? I don't know. I just know that a man with just the right mix would be right for me. I want

The Tease is a master manipulator. 127

Wed, 04/23/08 5:19 A GMT-05
Dealing With The TeaseFlirting is natural, exciting and arousing. It's human at its most fundamental level -- the intimate dance between a man and a woman. can't resist flirting and are far better schooled in its intricacies than men. But female flir

Don't confuse these women with any other women. They are nothing alike. 215

Fri, 04/11/08 5:09 A GMT-05
Don't you believe that particular women are continually trying to "get even" with men? They'll take a lot of abuse from their first guy, because they either have children or some nice material things like a home or something. But the law wi

Push A Man Away And Make Him Withdraw... 1911

Thu, 03/20/08 6:19 P GMT-05
Tons of women do this one thing.      And it must leave them feeling awful...       I wonder if you do it too?      I'm talking about women who hide their true feelings from a man and fear s

Not all women are "self-absorbed" pleasure-seekers 547

Sun, 03/16/08 7:19 A GMT-05
Arangay please keep in mind: just like not all guys are "bad boys," not all women are "self-absorbed" pleasure-seekers screwing around.  I am a decent, good-looking, hard-working woman, and I am disgusted by the so-called &

Shallow people care little about their targets 48

Mon, 03/10/08 6:53 A GMT-05
'Mamasan' Shallow people marry/date circumstances, not people. It's easier to see in cultures where this kind of practice is more obvious, but the same thing happens in the west as well. I would be happy to live and let live in this, but

Are you guys man enough? 625

Sun, 03/02/08 4:48 P GMT-05
Why do men feel so emasculated when they learn that their partner has cheated? She says, "don?t such make a big deal out of it because it didn?t mean anything." He is still deeply in love with her still but now he?s so bad

Live a life free of the soul-killling manipulations of others 448

Fri, 07/06/07 4:46 P GMT-05
THE PSYCHOPATH - The Mask of SanityThe QFS is committed to bringing to your attention any and all information that will help you to live a life free of the soul-killling manipulations of others.Our Sincere Thanks to the Owner of the website on Psycho

I know I could be more positive. 180

Fri, 04/13/07 7:10 A GMT-05
I know I could be more positive. Perhaps I could point out that sometimes people have very high self worth and for good reasons, but because they are aware how others perceive them, they took on low status behaviors so as not to make others uncomfort

Everybody lies 22

Sat, 03/10/07 7:17 A GMT-05
Everybody lies, but it doesn't matter because nobody listens.   - Nick Diamos

A Potential for Brutality -audio clip 44

Tue, 03/06/07 12:53 P GMT-05
This I Believe A Potential for Brutality Growing up in China near the end of the Cultural Revolution, Yinong Young-Xu witnessed cruelty and violence. Now living in the United States, he believes he must avoid exercising the brutality he learned

Why do Relationships Fail? And What to do About it! 431

Mon, 03/05/07 5:53 P GMT-05
Why do Relationships Fail? And Relationship Restoration! What Happens In relationships? It’s easy to fall in love. But it’s a lot harder to stay in love. We all want love to last. We all want to live happily ever after. No one decides to get marr