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It really is all just a game, and once you figure out how the game works, you can stop complaining about it and work it to your advantage.
"Nice guys", stop complaining that you finish last. Of course you finish last, because when a woman wants to settle down she will choose to be with you.
Women, stop complaining about bad boys. Deep down we all know that when we want some fun and excitement, we go for the bad boy. The problem is, being women we fool ourselves into thinking that we can have a long-term relationship with these bad boys. Don't you know you can't turn a bad boy into a husband? That's where we get our feelings hurt. If we just go into the relationship with these bad boys with the mind set that they aren't long-term relationship material and we're just with them for the fun of it, then we'll be better off. When the time comes that we're ready to settle down, leave the bad boy behind (do they really fit into your world anyway, it's called slumming) and find yourself a nice guy to spend the rest of your life with.
Sound bad? Men do it to us all the time. Men know there are two types of women: the ones you play with and the ones you commit to. The real man will stick with the ones that you play with and leave the ones you commit to until they're ready to settle down. A bad boy will play games with the ones you commit to (if they're allowed to) and then drop them once they get bored. A bad boy sees women as all the same and treats them all like shit. Example? A bad boy will see a woman who is beautiful, intelligent and has it all together and purposely knock her down a peg (or two). Women are led by their emotions which is why it works. Once we realize it's all a game, we can turn it around and use it to our advantage. Just like the men do.links: digg this del.icio.us technorati reddit