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I'm sick of dating bad guys that make me feel hot and sexy 99
posted Thu, 07/24/08
WarHammer Axe
Nice guys finish last.
Yeah, this may be construed as true, but do you really want to finish last, and is it really all it’s cracked up to be?
When you’re with a woman that wants to settle down with you, and she’s dated a lot of jerks in the past but now she wants to be with you because you’re nice and treat her well… Here’s what they’re secretly telling you,
“I’m sick of dating guys who make me so hot that I practically want to rip my clothes off for them. I’m ready for a nice guy who treats me well, even though he’s not all that sexually attractive to me.” “Besides, I’m sick of spreading my legs and being a complete slut, now I just want to settle down with a sperm donor, wallet and doormat whose testicles will fit nicely on my mantle.”
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30’s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their crap. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy.
Once they do, they will often cheat on him with an exciting, fun jerk (like the one they had when they were 21).
Now, I’m not saying to be a complete asshole, but just be a bit of a jerk. Women will say they want a nice guy, but quite often they choose jerks.
Women's big mistake has been in CHOOSING jerks, and then when the jerks jerk them around, bashing ALL men, including the less aggressive guys who stood by quietly wishing some of those girls would pay some attention to them, instead of the jerks. And, then rubbing salt in the wounds by using the nice guy as an emotional tampon to be the audience for their fine rendition of "the victim's lament" UNTIL the next jerk shows up for them to spread their legs for.
The jerks are often the guys that do approach women.
These guys have built up a tolerance for female rejection which is why they are either wholly or partially jerks. The thing that most women don’t realize is that the nicer guys who would likely treat them well, are not often the ones that will approach them because they just don’t want to deal with rejection.
And since women expect for men to be the ones to do the approaching, the process quite often weeds out the nicer guys and leaves them with jerks. Add to that the gender war’s stoking of female contempt and hatred for anything male which leads to male reluctance.
When the guy that she chooses inevitably doesn’t treat her the way she feels she should be treated, she goes on about how all men are jerks. If she only tested the waters of true equality and maybe asked out men here and there herself, she might get a better pool of men.
When women wonder where all the nice guys are at, and desire a "strong nice guy," what they really mean is that they want a doormat who is "man enough" to take her yoke and be her workhorse. He can't appear to be too much of a wimp, yet he can't be an overbearing creep she's already dated in the past.
Women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women.
That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to. This is also where the “women who sleep around are sluts while men who sleep around are studs” double-standard loses any credibility as a double-standard. Women gravitate toward players, which is why men are players.
If women didn’t sleep with players in great numbers, men would cease being players.
Nice guys finish last.
Yeah, this may be construed as true, but do you really want to finish last, and is it really all it’s cracked up to be?
When you’re with a woman that wants to settle down with you, and she’s dated a lot of jerks in the past but now she wants to be with you because you’re nice and treat her well… Here’s what they’re secretly telling you,
“I’m sick of dating guys who make me so hot that I practically want to rip my clothes off for them. I’m ready for a nice guy who treats me well, even though he’s not all that sexually attractive to me.” “Besides, I’m sick of spreading my legs and being a complete slut, now I just want to settle down with a sperm donor, wallet and doormat whose testicles will fit nicely on my mantle.”
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30’s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their crap. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy.
Once they do, they will often cheat on him with an exciting, fun jerk (like the one they had when they were 21).
Now, I’m not saying to be a complete asshole, but just be a bit of a jerk. Women will say they want a nice guy, but quite often they choose jerks.
Women's big mistake has been in CHOOSING jerks, and then when the jerks jerk them around, bashing ALL men, including the less aggressive guys who stood by quietly wishing some of those girls would pay some attention to them, instead of the jerks. And, then rubbing salt in the wounds by using the nice guy as an emotional tampon to be the audience for their fine rendition of "the victim's lament" UNTIL the next jerk shows up for them to spread their legs for.
The jerks are often the guys that do approach women.
These guys have built up a tolerance for female rejection which is why they are either wholly or partially jerks. The thing that most women don’t realize is that the nicer guys who would likely treat them well, are not often the ones that will approach them because they just don’t want to deal with rejection.
And since women expect for men to be the ones to do the approaching, the process quite often weeds out the nicer guys and leaves them with jerks. Add to that the gender war’s stoking of female contempt and hatred for anything male which leads to male reluctance.
When the guy that she chooses inevitably doesn’t treat her the way she feels she should be treated, she goes on about how all men are jerks. If she only tested the waters of true equality and maybe asked out men here and there herself, she might get a better pool of men.
When women wonder where all the nice guys are at, and desire a "strong nice guy," what they really mean is that they want a doormat who is "man enough" to take her yoke and be her workhorse. He can't appear to be too much of a wimp, yet he can't be an overbearing creep she's already dated in the past.
Women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women.
That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to. This is also where the “women who sleep around are sluts while men who sleep around are studs” double-standard loses any credibility as a double-standard. Women gravitate toward players, which is why men are players.
If women didn’t sleep with players in great numbers, men would cease being players.
1. Xena15 left...
Thu, 07/10/08 8:54 am
You hit the nail on the head! Remember!! When a woman has a pass of
sleeping around. Very very few actually change their ways and are most
likely to cheat. In marriage: if a man cheats, she gets half. If she
cheats, she gets half. Then she takes her booty to the bad boy with your
dime.
