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Is it true that beautiful people aren't interested in ordinary people? Is it true that beautiful people become narcissistic or develop a kind of malignant self-love? It’s just the way life is? Dating gurus try to convince ordinary guys that they can attract beautiful women by developing certain behaviors. Is that possible?

Everyone plays games, DJ. Even those that think they aren't playing games are playing The Game. It's just the degree (or skill) of which you play The Game that counts. In response to your question of who would an unnormally beautiful woman go for? I believe she would go for the one who makes her feel good, no matter what he looks like. Yes, of course looks are the first thing one notices. But I've been with men who I thought were drop dead gorgeous and once I got to know them realized that their personalities made them not-so-hot to me. The man that I fell in love with, the deepest love I've ever known, was not the most attractive man I've ever been with, PHYSICALLY. But in my eyes, he was the most beautiful man I've ever laid eyes on, inside and out. For women (who want a commitment), its not about the looks, its not about the money. It's about the way they smile at you. It's about the look in their eyes that they get when they see you. It's about knowing that they can depend on you when they really need it. It's about the lazy Sundays and the playing footsies in bed and the sharing a cup of coffee in the morning. That's what it's about.