Don't try too hard 10

A paradox if ever there was one!

"The problem is that once she knows a guy is in tersted she'll lose interst. So YOU CAN'T WIN."

True. Guys, why do you keep wasting your time with these dumb broads?

WHY? WHY? WHY?

Save your money. Then take a month or two off and live in Australia or Japan or S. Korea or Phillipines. I guarantee you when you get back to the U.S. you will look at these silly amercan girls and laugh at them.

Really!

This may be true in many cases, especially with the hoe type, but a wifely type of woman is looking for a partner, not a pimp. She doesn't need a guy to prove how aloof and unmoved by her "beauty" he is. She's looking for the father of her children and/or a stable companion, and simply won't get too deeply involved with a guy who isn't proving his commitment and consistency. These things are even more important than her feelings about the guy.

The big secret of women, that most women don't even want men to know, because it would mess up their artificial hierarchy, is that wifely types love sex, and whores don't. Female social hierarchy depends heavily on convincing men of the opposite.

Part of the reason women keep this from men is because if men knew this, they'd be more easily able to exploit the wifely type of women sexually, and the whore type of women financially, and both socially. What women don't understand, and I also didn't until relatively recently, is that it is individual ethics and upbringing that determines whether or not a man will be exploitive in any way...not the opportunity. Exploitive people are so regardless of whether or not there is actually opportunity. It's as if they have a built in self-f*cking mechanism. Honorable people don't seek to harm anyone without due cause, regardless of how much opportunity there is.

Humans just don't trust nature enough, I think. So if you do trust nature, you have an advantage because you can tell what people are doing or going to do, regardless of what they say.

If a woman plays the game of clinging tighter when you are pulling away, she is telling you that she's looking for a manager, not a partner. A wifely type of woman will respect your decision not to have what to do with her, and move on. She might even be angry with you for pursuing her, and then backing away. If you keep that up, even if she forgives you a few times, she will never really trust you.

A hoe type, on the other hand, loves that stuff. It keeps her on her toes and lets her know who's the boss.

See the difference? A hoe is looking for a boss or a sucker, not a partner. A wifely type is looking for a partner who is equally capable of leadership and being loved and supported. One is nonconsensual or barely consensual D/s, and the other is egalitarian with some consensual D/s depending on the specialties of the individuals which may or may not be gender based.

So a hoe is looking for someone who's like 100% Dom or "Alpha male", and failing that, will retire by settling for a submissive guy she can financially exploit when she's too old or used up to pull the other. A wifely type is looking for more balance, and really wants you to give her a reason to shag you silly and make you breakfast for the rest of her life.