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Does Nature Pressure Women To Rape (96 reads)

posted Tue, 06/23/09

News Flash

Does Nature Pressure Women To Rape As Well?

"Russian Woman Nicknamed Black Widow Sedated And Raped 10 Men

A young Russian woman, nicknamed the Black Widow for her collection of spiders, is on trial after being accused of sedating and raping 10 men.

According to Life.ru, Valeria K., 32, a quiet good-looking woman from the city of Tambov, shocked police when they discovered that she was the mysterious rapist who abused 10 local men after poisoning them with clonidine.

Valeria would get acquainted with the men and invite them to her place, where she would give them drinks mixed with the poison, causing them to fall asleep for almost 24 hours.

Once her victims were sedated, she would undress them and then rape them, tightening a rope on their male organs to keep them erect.

The men would wake up in the hospital with clonidine poisoning and penis trauma, and remember only a friendly brunette who had given them drinks.

When the police finally identified her, she was placed under arrest, but they presently know of only the ten victims, with one refusing to file a complaint against her.

"It was great," the Daily Telegraph quoted the unnamed man as saying.

"I like hot women. I only wish she hadn't use the clonidine on me," he added.

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1. Ali left...
Tue, 06/23/09 6:46 pm

A female serial rapist. Not too surprised. Well let the punishment fit the crime. 10 counts....damn.


2. D J left...
Wed, 06/24/09 9:25 am

"A female serial rapist. Not too surprised. Well let the punishment fit the crime. 10 counts....damn."

Ali the first one to comment. Not too surprised. For a male serial rapist 10 counts would be considered a "beginner". Don't even get started on serial rapists who go on to be serial killers.


3. Ali left...
Wed, 06/24/09 5:20 pm

Not trying to get into a pissing match with you about this, but why do you feel the need to try and downplay anything bad that a woman does? Next time somebody claims women don't rape or that females raping men doesn't need to be taken seriously, reference cases like this. This shit is not cute. Did you not see that some of them had to be hospitalized for penile damage? What if she poisoned those guys to death with the clonidine? What if she had some disease and burned those guys? What if one of those guys had something and she spread it among them? This was just wrong, and as usual, rather than admit it you defend the woman behaving badly.


4. DJ left...
Wed, 06/24/09 6:06 pm

"Not trying to get into a pissing match with you about this"

Yeah, you DON'T want to do that. For every story you find about a sadistic female rapist I can find probably 10 stories (plural) about sadistic male rapist. So yeah, your best out is to not get into a "pissing contest".

And show me where I said what the bitch did was ok or not to be taken seriously? Show me. I said it was no surprise that you would be the first one to shout it from the rooftops that a woman raped men. You practically salivate over stories like this. Well guess what? A story that is a "see it can happen to men" experience for you is a everyday reality for many women. There was the guy who raped dozens of women, knowingly giving them AIDS. Or the guy recently who raped a passed out woman and posted it on a website where hundreds viewed it and didn't report it. Or the guy who raped his own daughter and kept her locked in the basement over a 25 year period and had several kids with her. What about the serial rapist in the Phoenix area who was supposedly caught but the same style rapes continued happening even after an arrest was made?

What this woman did was sick and horrible. And the guy who thought it was "great" needs some kind of counseling. But the main reason this story is a big deal to you is because a woman was the aggressor. Had this been a story about a male rapist, this story may well have not gotten any comments or probably not have made it as a topic on this site at all. Your "10 counts.....damn" is a similar phrase uttered by women who watch the news everyday.


5. DJ left...
Wed, 06/24/09 6:11 pm

Where are the questions of what the men were wearing, or how drunk they were or how they must have been teasing the woman? Even before any judgement is cast on a male rapist, there is usually speculation on what the woman must have done. Where is that speculation here?

And this woman is from Russia? So you mean women from other countries can commit psychotic acts?


6. WarHammer Axe left...
Thu, 06/25/09 8:11 am

As for the crime...they say that the most attractive have the least confidence in themselves, so even if the men found her attractive, she didn't see it in herself. This was her way of gaining some power and so she resorted to raype. Much like women who speak out against rape by men say, why couldn't she get a man to love her, why did she rape?

It's about meeting HER needs, no one elses.

The most annoying part...one guy actually enjoyed it...wonder if a lot of women would make the same comment. Actually, if a woman has consentual sex with a man she likes, she can call it rape anytime she wants, and get away with it.

With rape being defined as anything that a WOMAN feels it is, and with evidence that women are raping more and more, it seems that women ARE emulating men...but not the MAJORITY of men...and they seem to be choosing the BAD parts rather than the good parts.

Speaking of drooling....

Notice how the thought of a man POSSIBLY being wrong brings our the fangs and claws...

The crime...the denial, the sarcasm about perceptions of rape, the comment about foreign women...I could tell when this was made into a story that it would be like ringing a bell and all I have to do was wait for the dog to post on the thread and start drooling after hearing the bell. Much like Pavlov noted, the conditioning and programming worked flawlessly.

<tosses a biscuit...good test subject, good experiment>

WarHamer Axe


7. DJ left...
Thu, 06/25/09 8:32 am

"and with evidence that women are raping more and more, it seems that women ARE emulating men"

You think men don't emulate women? The whininess, the self-pity the sense of entitlement, the cattiness? Of course, men aren't emulating th MAJORITY of women, just the ones that allow them to act like Primadonnas. See how that works both ways?

"Notice how the thought of a man POSSIBLY being wrong brings our the fangs and claws... "

Ever watch the news? If that were true the fangs and claws would never have a chance to retract.


8. Noize left...
Thu, 06/25/09 4:38 pm

DJ, Wow. So now you support rape as long as it's a woman doing it. You belong in jail right next to her.


9. DJ left...
Thu, 06/25/09 5:01 pm

I realize that you and men like you would rather have the story be about a woman being raped or beaten Noize, then you can pretend she's one of the many women that has rwronged you in the past.


10. Noize left...
Thu, 06/25/09 5:35 pm

DJ, Presupposing that I would want a woman to get beaten or raped makes you both wrong and stupid; pretending to be a mind reader just makes you look sad and demented.


11. DJ left...
Thu, 06/25/09 5:55 pm

Noise, Presupposing that I would want a man to get beaten or raped makes you both wrong and stupid; pretending to be a mind reader just makes you look sad and demented.

You put idiotic words in my mouth, I'll put idiotic words in yours.


12. Noize left...
Thu, 06/25/09 6:09 pm

DJ, Nanny nanny poo poo.


13. DJ left...
Thu, 06/25/09 6:13 pm

"Nanny nanny poo poo"

Not concerned with your babysitters bathroom habits.


14. Ali left...
Thu, 06/25/09 8:02 pm

DJ again as you commonly like to do, you are trying to turn this into a pissing match.

This woman was wrong for what she did. Raping even one person is a serious crime. The fact that she did it at least 10 times before getting caught makes it even more serious. There's nothing funny about this, but as usual you come in here trying to act as if it's no big deal what a woman does because someone somewhere did something worse. Minimalization of women's bad behavior. All the things you cited about men raping people, are examples of henious crimes as well and they deserve the maximum sentence allowable, as does this woman. But surely this case can be discussed without deflecting the attention to other situations. You seem to be trying to tell me "this is nothing you should see what men do". Well DJ most men don't rape people so your comparison is irrelevant with respect to the fact that this woman committed a serious crime and your comment only serves to try to divert attention from it.


15. Spartan Transit Association left...
Thu, 06/25/09 8:08 pm

Pussy Pass:

Ma'am please move to the back of the line.

NEXT!


16. DJ left...
Mon, 06/29/09 6:01 pm

"DJ again as you commonly like to do, you are trying to turn this into a pissing match"

And we both pee sitting down, don't we?

"Well DJ most men don't rape people "

Neither do most women. But you practically foam on the mouth when it does happen, it gives you yet another reason to hate women. Thing is, when a woman is a victim of rape, you are quick to wonder if she is lying, what she was wearing at the time, if she was drunk, etc etc. You didn't do that with this story. Of course you wouldn't.

I truly feel sorry for the alleged single mom girlfriend of yours. You spent almost an entire thread bad mouthing single mothers, then suddenly mentioned that your girlfriend was a single mother. That's like someone telling a bunch of racist jokes, then saying "It's ok, I have black/mexican/asian friends." I'd bet you subject this supposed girlfriend to all kinds of verbal and mental abuse. Not physical abuse because a guy like you wouldn't do well in prison, and/or you never know when a girl might fight back and knock your block off. You are as hateful of women as "bad boys" are, but you lack the false confidence, charisma, and probably looks that bad boys have. All the other disrespectful behaviour is right there.

Oh, and let's see your disgust over this story, one of the many reasons why nobody (especially women) should respond to auditions casting calls on Craigslist:

NEW YORK – The Oscar-winning composer and director behind "You Light Up My Life" raped 11 women he lured to his apartment with the promise of a starring role in a movie, prosecutors said at his arraignment Tuesday.

The women read an online ad placed by the director, Joseph Brooks, applied for the audition "and thought this was their chance to become a big star," prosecutor Lisa Friel said.

Instead, once the women were in Brooks' Manhattan apartment, he plied them with wine and forcibly raped them or used threats and coercive behavior to make them have sex with him, prosecutors said.

The scrawny Brooks, 71, denied the accusations. He pleaded not guilty in Manhattan's state Supreme Court, where he was arraigned on a 91-count indictment charging him with rape, criminal sexual act, sexual abuse, assault and other charges. He faces up to 25 years in prison if convicted of first-degree rape.

Justice Charles Solomon set bail at $500,000 bond or $250,000 cash bail and gave Brooks until Thursday to post it. The judge told Brooks not to leave town without letting the court know.

Brooks won the Oscar for Best Original Song for the 1977 ballad "You Light Up My Life." He also wrote and directed the "You Light Up My Life" movie, about a comedian who has a one-night stand with a director.

District Attorney Robert Morgenthau said Brooks used his Hollywood credentials on the Craigslist classified ads Web site to attract the victims, aged 18 to 30. He said Brooks' ad specified attractive young women for a starring role in a movie.


17. Woodsmen left...
Tue, 06/30/09 8:46 pm

Most men would be more then happy to be raped by an attractive Russian woman. Wouldn't even need the drugs or the rope to cinch up the willy. Same goes for female teachers having sex with students. Every male over the age of 14 wants that to happen. Unless the woman is hideous it's isn't rape.


18. Ali left...
Wed, 07/01/09 12:22 am

Woodsmen I wouldn't say all that, not all guys are that hard up for pussy that they want to be raped by a woman. WTF? You assume that just because a woman looks attractive that it makes bullshit like this acceptable. It doesn't. It's rape if you don't want to have sex with the person or you didn't give your consent. A woman being aggressive regarding something you wanted to happen anyway is not rape, but you are mixing up concepts here. There is that BSDM stuff but even that is consentual and there are at least safe words so you're not totally powerless, when you want her to stop she will stop...but what this bitch did was a completely different story. So what if she looks like a knockout, you don't know where she's been or who she's been with and if she's going to go about it this way, drugging you, tying you up and not giving you the option of wearing a condom or anything and for God's sake damaging your dick in the process you should consider that maybe you don't want what she's forcing on you. I don't know just a thought...It could be a mixed STD cocktail waiting in there for you for all you know. Or at the very least some penile damage that could cause problems for you later like impotence or something. Then there are the psychological effects of being forced to do something you didn't want to do...and there's no easy way to know how that will affect your ability to be intimate with a woman in the future because it's not like you can simply purge the rape from your mind like it didn't happen...so how can you sit here and say most men want to be raped...speak for yourself.


19. Ali left...
Wed, 07/01/09 12:38 am

To add injury to the aforementioned problems, there is also the very real possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. And by unwanted I mean unwanted by the father who didn't consent to the sexual act nor the making of the baby, also he will probably object to the wage garnisments that will eventually be imposed thru the the CS system which by many is considered a form of financial rape. Not thru a case of neglect or irresponsibility on his part but because the woman in her selfishness took what she did not ask for. Also the child did not ask to be brought into a fucked up situation like that. But the woman who raped you will sure sit there and say "well the baby's here now, so...." basically in more ways than one, you're fucked....and not in the good way that makes you want to smoke a cigarette afterward either. Woodsmen are you sure you want to sign up for that?


20. DJ left...
Wed, 07/01/09 2:28 am

But Ali, I thought it was just women who didn't take males being raped seriously? I bet had a woman said what Woodsmen has said, your response would be far more harsh, less inquisitive and much less understanding. You'd point out her lack of logic, and maybe even go on to say most women think this way. Even if a woman would have said that it is okay for a good looking man to force himself on a woman, you would have probably brought up her mental state. Surprise, surprise, a man says something you have criticized women for saying, and you are more tactful in your response.

" And by unwanted I mean unwanted by the father who didn't consent to the sexual act nor the making of the baby, also he will probably object to the wage garnisments that will eventually be imposed thru the the CS system which by many is considered a form of financial rape. Not thru a case of neglect or irresponsibility on his part but because the woman in her selfishness took what she did not ask for. Also the child did not ask to be brought into a fucked up situation like that. But the woman who raped you will sure sit there and say "well the baby's here now, so...." basically in more ways than one, you're fucked"

Wow, where is that rationale when it is the woman who has been violated and becomes pregnant? First and foremost you'd probably want the agressor to make the woman subject to a paternity test is my guess. You are the first one to holler and scream about double standards when they apply to men, but you either keep mum or are at the forefront of those double standards when they apply against women.

And another surprise surprise, you had nothing to say about the Grammy winning writer who allegedly raped 11 women. Where is your snarky "11 counts......damn." comment?

"Most men would be more then happy to be raped by an attractive Russian woman. "

Woodsmen, you really do men a disservice by saying things like this. It is probably difficult enough for men to come forward, but knowing that they wouldn't get support from other men just because the woman is attractive probably makes it that much more difficult. It is far more traumatic than you think it is, and the aggressors physical appearance does nothing to diminish the shame and hurt a situation like that can cause. You may want to rethink your stance on that.