The Good Guy
D J said: "You really think American women want to change their attitudes for men who have not one good thing to say about them?"
Whether or not American women want to change for the better is their choice not mine.
Knowledge is power. Once men are empowered to make better decisions, many will make better decisions. Once men understand what some of the issues american women have are they'll know how to recognize these issues in their dealings with american women and as consequnce, make better choices.
Once American women start to realize american men have other options guess what happens? Many american women will begin to improve their attitudes. I have seen this happen.
D J also said: "I know a lot of men use the 'date foreign' women attitude hoping to make American women feel they are missing out on a good thing. Then we see the men these women are with, and some of them are they are bitter, hateful, controlling and sometimes abusive. So what is the American woman supposed to be sorry about?"
The "date foreign" advice is not intended to make american women feel bad. It is to let american men know they have other, often better options available.
And not all american men who marry foreign women treat their wives like slaves (I don't).
I see nothing wrong with men seeking out international women for mates. To
me though it would be sad to think I had to go to the opposite side of the
globe to find a compatible person for myself. Out of 300 million + people
in the U.S. there aren't one or two that would make me happy?
They're here, you just have to make sure you don't get entangled with a
rotten apple on your way to find a compatable woman though.