A guy can learn to be attractive without having to be a jerk. 89

Most men need to be taught how to be attractive to a woman. We as men have been taught to suppress our needs. Our natural ability to attract women has been lost. The jerk still has some of that and women unknowingly fall for him. All man needs to do is emulate the jerk to a point. Lots of information out there to learn this. Once you look in to it your eyes will be opened.

Men are told they are supposed to act a certain way, be a gentleman, be courteous, put the woman first, etc.

This is the societal programming. Which is not exactly what women really want. Maybe some women but not all women, as we can see.

It's a common misconception that jerks simply do whatever they want, when in reality they will do whatever is necessary to get what they want, even if it is unethical or dishonest. That includes playing women like a fiddle to get in the panties. This is what makes them jerks, the manipulation and such. They act like assholes to women because they know the women will keep coming back because they have something the women want.

We, as men, grow up having our behavior molded by MOM. We spend eighteen years being programmed to be polite, buy gifts, talk about our feelings, open doors, give compliments, blah blah blah blah....

Basically, mom taught us how to make every woman puke. Mom ripped us off. Mom lied to us. Mom taught us how to be good kids, not how to be good men.

Lol it's even worse considering a lot of moms won't admit to ever being wrong.

Guess we just have to learn the hard way.

It would have been nice to have gotten an honest heads up about women. Well that's what dads are for lol.

So where is dear old dad during all of this? Let me guess, mom ran him away, right?

So your mom taught you to be a decent human being? How horrible that must be to be raised to have manners. Pity moms can't teach common sense, self-esteem and how to have an actual personality. If you can't develop those things on your own.......take the easy route and blame that on mom too. *rolls eyes*

most mothers opress their sons. good manners are nothing more then opression.