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A bad pattern in mate selection 49
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The problem is when the father is a violent criminal and the mother is , as in my case schizophrenic. That set up a very bad pattern in mate selection. I have only attracted beautiful women who are schizophrenic and or criminals, and in retrospect I’m sure that those are the only ones I’m attracted to in return. It's funny how many guys have been jealous of me because they have seen me with the hottest women around and little do they know how crazy they are. My personal experience has been that the hotter the women are the more mental problems they have. This all goes back to the psychological principal that we are comfortable with what we were raised with and that messes up our mate selection unless we had reasonable stable parents.
Well my father wasn't a violent criminal but an army drill seargant type
who ruled the house by fear. His rage and anger drained the life out of
everyone around him. Really messes up a person's head to think that is
normal. No rebelling in that household, not when I was around. That
contributed to a bad pattern in choosing a mate. Except with me I didn't
get the beautiful crazy women. I got the average to below average looking
crazy ones. Ended up married to one who was an untreated schizophrenic. Oh
joy oh joy. It was a real eye opener when I stepped back and saw the
pattern, the similarities in the women I've been with.
Now in my 50's I wonder sometimes if I'll ever get the one for me. I'm not
asking for Brooke Shields or Charlize Theron beauties. But something easy
on the eyes would be nice, something to stimulate long pent up desires.
