" Women can see through men who are fake" 420

A super nice guy is usually very nervous / shy and uncomfortable around a woman when he is talking with her. A woman sees this as being fake. Men who could care less about the woman come off as real. Both men can say the same thing and the woman will go for the guy who could care less. There is no thought around it. It's just nature and body language. A man needs to truly believe what he is saying otherwise a woman will pick up on his body language that is saying the opposite. It goes the same for men. Men will find that the woman with the over the top sexuality is actually not like that at all. She is actually being fake and men will fall for that as well.

The guy who could care less, will likely care less about other things as well.

And in fact this is what happens in these relationships the women have with the guys who care less.

Lots of guys say stuff just to get laid, they pretend to care less, etc. If the woman thinks he's being real and he's not, she's falling for bullshit however you want to slice it.

If they were so good at detecting who was "real" and who was not, I don't think there would be so many train wrecks in the wake of bad relationships. The thing they think correlates with being "real" would actually pan out to be the case...but in reality something different has been happening.

"If they were so good at detecting who was "real" and who was not, I don't think there would be so many train wrecks in the wake of bad relationships. " They are not good at it at all!You can't even try and explain it these woman because they will also see a man who simplifies things as being weak and dumb. One woman even said to a friend of mine "Men are dumb! They think simple" Most women agree with not liking a man to simplify things so the situation makes better sense.

She picks the guy who doesn't give a damn, and then gets mad and hurt when he doesn't give a damn....hmmm....kinda a foregone conclusion there.

Why do you think someone who is nervous or uncomfortable is any less "real" than someone who is putting on a front so as to appear like they don't have a care in the world? The nervous person actually is feeling nervous. What would be fake would be for the nervous guy to "act" like he could care less. So if a woman falls for the guy who puts on the "careless" act then she didn't see thru anything did she? And as I said there is also the folly of being with someone who is careless and reckless, etc. If this was truly the way to go you would be hearing of women having hapily ever afters with these kinds of guys moreso than anybody else.

" Females can see through men who are fake"

Bullshit. If women have such a great sense of who's fake or not why is the divorce rate so high? Why are there so many unhappy relationships out there? All women do not have that all-knowing sixth sense.