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Don't date out of pity.

Mamasan Everybody's got issues, but not everybody's issues prevent them from being happy. Some people view their problems as things to overcome, while others use their problems as excuses. Not everyone has the same strengths. The important th

You could learn why women aren't attracted to you 25

randem It's really convenient to label women as "dysfunctional". It's an excellent victim mentality. You don't have to recognize what's wrong with you, and you can just put the blame on them. Works real nice, if you're h

Sorry girls, you had your fun. Now live with it 58

Derek Women do go after Average Joes AFTER having been with jerks and thugs. That's been my experience. Trouble is their experiences with bad boys took away their trust, their openness, and gave them a ton of baggage to dump on some poor sap. I

Can people change? 49

DaveWe know that often people want to change. They need to change but can they actually change? I don't think that people can change. They try to change but always fail and revet back. What do you think?

A Lonely Troubled Soul 59

hello there, my name is TimI stumbled upon this site while tryin to find answer to a "relationship problem" ive been havingIm hoping you can provide some constructive advice, unlike the people ive talked to haveSo theres this girl Sam. One

I think men have a greater chance once a woman has been attracted to a jerk. 268

You asked, "Men are told that they have very little chance with a women once she's attracted to a Jerk. I wonder if thats true?" If anything, I think men have a greater chance once a woman has been attracted to a jerk. I can't speak for

The key to healing shame 30

Sally I agree that compassion for yourself is key to healing shame. I am from a large Italian family that still to this day blames and points fingers, judges and crticizes each other for not living up to each others unrealistic expectations. The lack

Do women feel little guilt while cheating? 73

'john from MD' honestly, i caught my wife cheating on me with a coworker. she was being very cautious with her phone, and I did a google search and bought a Sim Spy from a website called proofpronto.com for like $130. i found all kinds of stu

Why do Relationships Fail? 251

Why do Relationships Fail? And Relationship Restoration! What Happens In relationships? It’s easy to fall in love. But it’s a lot harder to stay in love. We all want love to last. We all want to live happily ever after. No one decid

Who is afraid of rejection? 44

The next time you're out at a bar on a Friday night with yourfriends, try this little exercise:Take a look around you.That's right... scan the room and take it all in:There's the nerdy-looking guy, nervously picking at the label onhis bee

What women want 261

By LINDSAY JOHNSON and Lisa DellRebel Yell beauties Lindsay Johnson and Lisa Dell let you in on a little secret...If you leave...Don't expect to see her ever again. Women want--no, crave--to be held and cuddled afterwards. Who knows--you might even e

How are you hiding yourself? 70

The result of your attempt to feel loved and to please others is that, like most people, you have learned and adopted various behavioral strategies designed to get the approval you need. Next we will explore a list of some of the more common exampl

Rational Lies 33

by MichaelBEWARE THE RATIONAL LIESThe single greatest ally that you can have in gettingthe woman of your dreams is also the single greatestenemy. This ally, and enemy, are the EMOTIONSwithin you.Emotions are so powerful that they make us BELIEVEthing

Attract dysfunctional women 61

Ali Jerks, bad boys, etc. tend to attract dysfunctional women. So be careful what you wish for. IMO if you're not a jerk, you should just leave the women who like jerks alone. Find a woman who likes the kind of guy you are, you'll be much hap

What Men Need to Know About Attraction - For Men Only 266

A man should know that young women are not attracted to kindness in a man. Young and some older women are attracted to the nastiness in a man. Kindness often means boring and weakness to women and they don't want it. They want the excitement and go

Learn From The Jerks How to Attract Women!!!! 242

Learn From The Jerks How to Attract Women!!!! Each and every one of you know a beautiful woman, a woman you might happily die for, who is constantly falling for jerks. What’s up with this? Why won’t she return your phone calls, but will happily g

Do women behave like the needy wussy guys they despise so much? 77

by Peige ParkerThink about it...In a perfect world, all girls would be born with the innateability to understand the opposite sex: what men think, whythey think it, and why they do the ridiculous things they do.We would grow into self-assured women b

Men Fear Women 3899

Confusion - "Women are confused about the type of man they want. Women want responsible loving men but are sexually attracted to complicated men or jerks." Jerks ? most women prefer the company of jerks who they say are not boring the way

That vital spark, It's all or nothing 101

Speaking from a woman's point of view, I disagree with John Gray's 'friendship first' thing. That vital spark, which is ignited by sexual attraction to somebody must ALWAYS come first. If it isn't there in the first few seconds of meeting someone, it

Why the nice guy becomes colder to women over time 62

Woodsmen "Chameleon syndrome" I used to hear women say this about a nice guy. They say things like "The nice guy was nice for a bit then changed." I now understand that the nice guy changed because he got sick of putting up with h

Girl Code 301

Here's a cool project for the weekend. Let's write out the Girl Code on Venus in black and white. Most of us know the rules of the Sisterhood, they've somehow been implanted in us since birth (even though some break/bend the rules) we know them. For

Hard-wired to be prejudiced 35

Contrary to what most people believe, the tendency to be prejudiced is a form of common sense, hard-wired into the human brain through evolution as an adaptive response to protect our prehistoric ancestors from danger.So suggests a new study publishe

What I've Learned about women 397

The 3 Biggest Secrets I've Learned About Women WHAT I'VE LEARNED ABOUT WOMEN...    A lot of guys ask me to "sum up" what I've learned about women and dating.    They want a "short course" in how to attr

Bad Girls: "Queen Bees and Wannabes" 198

?My daughter used to be so wonderful. Now I can barely stand her and she won?t tell me anything. I feel totally shut out. How can I find out what?s going on?? After years of hearing pleas like this one from the frustrated pare

Survival of the bitchiest 302

Queen Bees and Wannabees*I am a Canadian girl who chooses not to be in group situations with females  whom have made this choice because it is an exercise in "survival of the bitchiest"! I am not blood thirsty enough because I am usually t

Are women equal to men in malice and trickery? 55

Mamasan My second ex went through something similar with his ex wife. She succeeded in tricking him though, and so she basically got everything, and he ended up having to pay for the divorce and all...but he got his freedom. That was the important th

I'm in dire need of some advice, 64

sarah.chestnut@qmail.queens.eduI'm in dire need of some advice, if you do not mind.Situation:I'm in college and I've been dating a guy that I like very much for about 3 months. When things are good, they're really good; but when they&

The annoying chatter in your mind 52

sophia A lot of people have trouble trying to meditate because they are trying to empty their minds, or try to control their thoughts. The best meditation practice is one called the Silent Witness. Instead of trying to quiet your thoughts, or make th

A man's core belief 270

A man?s core belief about what a woman's opinion says about him. A woman's opinion about me is real. I'm afraid that when she doesn't want me, it's a reflection on my value as a man." . I'm afraid that when she doesn't want me, it's a

What the hell is chemisty? 94

Shirley Budhos, New York City, e-mailed, "I find the word 'chemistry' loathsome, because it's adolescent and dishonest."Men have often used the expression 'chemistry' and I resent it. Somehow, they seem to think that they make all of the ch

I've come to lower my opinion of women 122

Charley"Since I've come to lower my opinion of women, these things don't hurt as much because they have less shock value to me, and therefore less sense of being used and less betrayal element to it. i.e. - I've come to expect the wo

Meditation Real Control For Your Life 14

Dr Terry Lyles Unfortunately, many people feel jaded or let down because of past bad relationships or professional failures. They're actually more focused on their regrets than on their dreams and desires and, as a result, get more of t